It’s morning, and my little one, Noah, is feeling under the weather with a fever and sniffles. Instead of bouncing around and chatting up a storm, he’s curled up on the couch, fast asleep in my arms. I gently run my fingers through his hair, listening to his soft breaths. I have a million things on my to-do list, but for now, I could just stay here forever.
I haven’t always felt this way. When Noah was just three months old, I attended a local moms’ group where the topic of naps came up. Not the sporadic newborn naps that last for 20 minutes, but the more structured kind that involve a baby sleeping at regular intervals. As a new mom, the idea of a predictable sleep routine was incredibly appealing since I was craving some “me” time.
During those early months, Noah would only nap while being held in a carrier or sling. When he was awake, it was a constant cycle of nursing, soothing, or changing him. The other moms seemed to have their babies on a routine, so I thought it was time to try that too. After all, he wasn’t a newborn anymore, right?
Starting a nap routine was promising. I’d read him a couple of books, sway him gently until he was drowsy (but still awake!), then place him in his crib, feeling triumphant as I tiptoed out for a rare moment of peace. But the challenge hit me exactly 30 minutes later when Noah would wake up wailing. I struggled to get him back to sleep in his crib, but according to the schedules I’d devised and the countless examples I’d seen online, his nap was supposed to last at least another hour. If it didn’t, the whole day’s timing would be thrown off, and I’d feel like I was back at square one.
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In conclusion, while the demands of a new mom can feel overwhelming, finding a routine that works for both you and your little one can help. It’s all about patience and learning to adapt to your baby’s unique needs.