Let’s be honest: the idea of a “family vacation” is often more of a myth. It’s really just a chaotic journey that involves a mountain of planning, endless packing, and the constant worry of forgetting something important—like a beloved stuffed animal or a must-have hoodie.
Upon reaching your destination—whether it’s a sunny beach, a scenic mountain, a campsite, or a bustling city—you’ll find that the joys of parenting don’t magically disappear. Expect plenty of whining, tantrums, and sibling squabbles. Your kids will likely overlook the stunning views, unique cuisine, and all the hard work you put into planning this trip. There will be tears, unexpected messes, and perhaps even some mysterious bug bites that require attention.
By the end of your “vacation,” you might find yourself wishing you had opted for that dental appointment instead of spending days in close quarters with your kids. So how can you transform a family trip into something more enjoyable for everyone involved? Here are a few unconventional tips:
1. Adjust Your Expectations.
Seriously, lower them significantly. If you thought your kids would be ecstatic about a week in Hawaii, think again. They might only show interest in new experiences for a day or two. Depending on their ages, you can expect them to join in on just one shared activity each day, whether it’s a museum visit, a hike, or a boat ride. The fewer expectations you have, the more likely you are to enjoy the moments that do surprise you. And yes, screen time can count as an activity when all else fails.
2. Embrace Screen Time.
While many of us are okay with allowing kids to indulge in screens during travel, it can feel more challenging to let them keep watching once you arrive. Get over it. Kids need downtime, and that often means zoning out on their devices. Who cares if it feels like their brains are turning to mush? At least you’ll have some peace to enjoy your drink.
3. Plan for Refreshments.
When sibling arguments arise over something trivial, like whose turn it is to unlock the hotel room, resist the urge to lose your cool. Instead, look forward to a refreshing drink. During a trip to Amsterdam, we discovered a playground with a bar nearby, which made our afternoon delightful. Finding venues where you can enjoy a drink while the kids play can turn an ordinary day into a mini-vacation.
4. Consider Hiring a Babysitter.
Entrusting your children to a local sitter might feel daunting, but a kid-free night can redefine your vacation experience. When I was young, my parents left my sister and me in a tent in Africa with a local caregiver so they could enjoy dinner at a lodge. Nowadays, many hotels offer reputable babysitting services. It’s a far cry from my experience with a neighbor’s cousin looking after us, but it’s worth the peace of mind.
5. The Power of Bribery Should Not Be Underestimated.
You might want to visit a fascinating museum, but your kids are fixated on the toy store. When you say no and the whining begins, it’s time to pull out the big guns: “How about ice cream for lunch? Or twenty bucks each?” Remember, you’re in survival mode, and sometimes you have to do what it takes to keep the peace.
6. Loosen the Rules.
Your kids are on vacation too, so don’t sweat the small stuff. If they stay up late, skip vegetables, or go a few days without a bath, it’s okay. They will survive the break from routine, and you’ll be a smarter parent for easing up on the rules. Enforcing them all the time can be exhausting and counterproductive to your goal of relaxation.
In the end, while every vacation has its share of stress, it’s essential to capture those joyful moments. Be sure to take plenty of photos and share them on social media to remind yourself of the good times. After all, it was pretty great, wasn’t it?
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