I’ve heard all the remarks: “Why would you do that to yourself?” “You were so attractive before.” “What will you tell your daughter about this?” “You’ll regret these when you’re older.”
They’re talking about my tattoos.
And perhaps, in the future, I might have some regrets. But honestly, I doubt it. Generally, I’m pretty easygoing and unconcerned about society’s narrow definitions of beauty. I’m a confident woman, and my list of regrets is short—so short, I can count them on one hand.
The question of whether I’ll regret my tattoos is irrelevant. They are part of me, and right now, I embrace my body, piercings, and all.
As for your opinion? Well, kindly keep it to yourself. Seriously.
I know this may sound a bit blunt, but I refuse to apologize. It’s taken me years to accept and love my body, and I won’t let your negativity drag me back into self-doubt.
Growing up, I struggled with my self-image. I believed my thighs were too thick, my breasts were too small, and my stomach? A disaster. I felt like a mess.
To hide what I thought were flaws, I wore oversized clothes and used padded bras. I even spent a fortune on diet pills, trying to vanish the parts of myself I despised. But nothing worked—or so I thought.
At 17, I was grappling with body dysmorphia and an eating disorder. Thankfully, I eventually sought professional help and left those harmful habits behind. However, the scars on my psyche and body remained.
Even after I “recovered,” I continued to scrutinize and criticize myself for years. But then, I discovered the world of body modification—tattoos and piercings.
A fascinating transformation occurred when I began to adorn my skin. Instead of seeing imperfections, I started to view my body as a canvas of potential and beauty. In my modified self, I found strength and authenticity.
Of course, my confidence didn’t blossom overnight. But as my mind and spirit healed, my tattoos evolved into symbols of my journey. For instance, the vibrant flowers that now flourish around the scar on my abdomen tell my unique story.
I understand tattoos aren’t for everyone, and that’s perfectly okay. You’re entitled to your preferences, but it’s essential to respect others’ choices. Remember the wise saying: “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”
Regardless of your size or shape, you are inherently beautiful—inside and out. So dismiss the ads, ignore the trends, and silence that inner critic. Instead, take a moment to reflect on what you cherish about yourself. Celebrate that, and let your self-love flourish.
Because you are beautiful, and so am I.
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In summary, embrace your uniqueness and let go of the judgments of others. Your body is yours to love and cherish, and tattoos can be a powerful expression of that love.