In the journey of life, we all seek to live our best selves, no matter the circumstances. Consider Sarah, who practices aerial yoga. She shares stunning images of herself gracefully hanging from the ceiling, practicing outdoors in vibrant springtime or in elegant black-and-white at home. A marathon runner and a proud mom to teenagers, she finds joy in the little things, like sipping her beloved Diet Coke. Sarah embodies a kind of beauty that transcends mere looks; she radiates a soulful essence because she is unapologetically living her best life.
Then there’s Mia, a mother to an adventurous 3-year-old. With a flair for twirly dresses, she embraces her title as the “Queen of Doughnuts” with humor, acknowledging her love for fried foods. Aspiring to deck her kitchen in pink and always stocked with chocolate chip cookie ingredients, Mia relocated across the country to keep her son close to his dad. Her beauty is also soul-deep, stemming from her commitment to live authentically and joyfully, regardless of external judgment.
Living your best life doesn’t equate to perfection. Both Sarah and Mia face significant challenges, including being single mothers with their own set of worries. Their lives may not be picture-perfect; they experience late nights of worry, unexpected messes, and the complexities of raising teenagers. Yet they possess a powerful secret: they choose to embrace the difficult moments while also creating their own joyful experiences, regardless of what others think.
You, too, have the right to craft your own moments. You are an extraordinary human being, deserving of happiness and fulfillment. We all possess the ability to shape our best selves and experiences in our current circumstances, as perfect timing is an illusion that seldom arrives. There will always be obstacles—be it a stubborn ingrown toenail or that nagging inner critic telling you that you’re not worthy. But the key is to muster your courage, push through those doubts, and take action anyway.
That’s why I decided to treat myself to some fabulous tutus. After grappling with body-image issues that left me feeling down, I realized I wanted to embrace my uniqueness and love myself wholeheartedly. So, I ordered a few tutus—even though I’ve never danced a day in my life—because they made me genuinely happy. When they arrived, I couldn’t wait to pair them with tank tops and sandals. Watch out, world! I’m wearing a tutu to the grocery store.
Recently, while loading my kids into the car, I turned on the soundtrack from the musical Hamilton. To my delight, my sons began to sing along softly. I encouraged them to sing as loudly as they could, as that’s what my heart felt. So, we sped down the highway, belting out our favorite tunes, even the cheeky parts.
I’ve also started carrying vintage handkerchiefs in my purse, catching bugs with my kids instead of panicking. I’m investing time in training my dog, rescuing handmade blankets from thrift stores, and engaging in arts and crafts with my children instead of merely overseeing them. These activities may take longer, but they fill me with joy. It’s the tutus, the loud singing, and the bliss of disregarding others’ opinions that affirm I’m living my best life.
You, too, can embark on this journey. You deserve to live your best life, and it begins with finding something unique that sparks joy. Perhaps it’s those knee-high gladiator sandals you spotted online, or a vibrant crop top, or even that bold red lipstick you’ve been eyeing. Maybe you want to create art with your kids, or simply draw a fish, a bird, or a tree—whatever makes your heart sing.
If you think you can’t draw or craft, you’re missing the point: this isn’t about perfection; it’s about happiness. Maybe your best self is yearning for a solo vacation, even if it’s just a day away in the city. Maybe it’s about building a sandcastle or whipping up brownies. No judgment here. Just ensure it’s your choice—something that resonates with your spirit.
Whatever it is that brings you joy, pursue it. Do something that fills you with pride and helps you celebrate your uniqueness. It’s perfectly fine if your journey looks different from anyone else’s. We all have our quirks, whether it’s practicing aerial yoga, hoarding cookie ingredients, or donning tutus. The point is, we are all living our best lives amidst the chaos, and we’re loving it.
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In summary, embracing your best life is about celebrating who you are, creating moments of joy, and rejecting the notion of perfection. It’s a journey unique to you, filled with laughter, creativity, and self-love.