COVID-19 has been a real downer. One of the toughest aspects has been the inability to meet up with friends. While my circle isn’t massive, I truly cherish those I hold dear and miss our face-to-face interactions, free from the barrier of screens. That’s when I decided to adopt a practice my sister-in-law has been enjoying with her family since the pandemic started: yard gatherings.
With my state having eased the stay-at-home restrictions—an action I view as questionable at best—we’re now able to invite people into our yard. I know, it may sound a bit strange. But hear me out.
What Exactly Is ‘Yard Gathering’?
Yard gathering, which might sound like an odd Southern tradition, involves people visiting one another while taking necessary precautions to prevent virus transmission. We assume that everyone involved is an asymptomatic carrier and maintain a safe distance of over six feet while enjoying each other’s company outdoors.
This practice emerged from our overwhelming sense of isolation. The only individuals I engage with face-to-face are:
- My children,
- Their other parent,
- And my own parent.
I sometimes express my gratitude loudly to the brave delivery workers who keep our world running, but shouting a cheery “Thank you, and have a great day!” at the mail carrier doesn’t count as a real conversation.
Consequently, we are all yearning for human interaction. When my friend Jake suggested he come over to chat from the yard, I was thrilled. We quickly set up some outdoor furniture, opened the gate for him, and waited eagerly. I felt a surge of emotion when he strolled through my herb garden and settled down at our outdoor table.
Ensuring Safety During Visits
We approach this situation as if we’re in a high-risk environment. We treat the possibility of COVID-19 as if everyone might carry it while simultaneously believing we’re all healthy. The concept is akin to Schrödinger’s cat—both alive and dead until someone takes a peek. Thus, we prioritize the safety of both our guests and ourselves.
For us, that means yard gatherings occur with a minimum distance of ten feet, preferably in sunny, humid conditions with a gentle breeze. Our designated “Social Zone” consists of metal chairs and a table, positioned twelve feet from our porch, ensuring ample space that exceeds the CDC’s recommended six feet.
Research indicates that sunlight, warmth, and humidity can significantly lower the likelihood of the virus surviving. A study from China found that out of 1,245 confirmed cases, only two were transmitted outdoors, making this approach feel safer. Furthermore, Dr. Marty Makary from Johns Hopkins has noted that outdoor interactions with proper distancing present a lower infection risk compared to indoor settings.
Even with these precautions, we still maintain a cautious mindset. We do have to raise our voices to communicate, but we adhere to the recommended guidelines by wearing masks and ensuring at least six feet of separation.
When it’s time for a yard gathering, everything else fades away. We might have tasks or plans ahead, but the arrival of a friend makes time stand still. It feels almost Mediterranean; we savor each moment, appreciating the chance to connect. It’s a reminder of how precious in-person interactions are, like welcoming a traveler with news from afar.
When our friends leave, we feel rejuvenated. Our lives gain a bit of normalcy amidst the chaos, even if our conversations involve animated discussions about the latest movie releases or local gossip.
Yard gatherings can definitely be safe and uplifting during these challenging times. They serve as a reminder of the joy of connection, even if it means your neighbors overhear your animated debates about the best Star Wars series.
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Summary:
Yard gatherings have become a vital means of maintaining social connection during the pandemic, allowing friends to interact safely while adhering to distancing guidelines. This practice not only alleviates feelings of isolation but also fosters appreciation for in-person communication. With proper precautions in place, these visits can be both enjoyable and secure, providing a sense of normalcy amidst the chaos of COVID-19.