In recent months, a nagging thought has taken root in my mind, growing more persistent with each passing day. It has been over a week since influential figures like Oprah reignited the #TimesUp movement and months since Alyssa Milano brought #MeToo back into the spotlight. In reflecting on Tarana Burke’s original vision for Me Too, which aimed to empower young women of color who had experienced sexual violence, I can’t help but question whether we are truly addressing the plight of the most vulnerable among us.
A 2010 report to Congress revealed that children in foster care are ten times more likely to suffer sexual abuse than those living with biological parents. Despite being aware of this alarming statistic for nearly a decade, Congress has yet to implement effective measures to mitigate this crisis. A smaller study focusing on girls in foster care indicated that an astonishing 81% had experienced sexual abuse, with 68% of those victims subjected to multiple perpetrators.
Consider the story of our Choice Network advocate, Mia. While she possesses vivid memories of her past, she struggles to recall specific instances of sexual abuse, likely due to the trauma that has obscured those memories since early childhood. Though the details may be hazy, she clearly remembers the abuse faced by her foster siblings. It is no surprise to her that foster children are disproportionately affected by such horror. She recognizes that the urgency remains for children still caught in an imperfect system today.
I admire the women who leverage their platforms to advocate for all women, and many of us can relate to their experiences. We recall moments of discomfort, whether it was enduring unwanted advances while working as waitstaff or facing inappropriate comments in professional settings. These shared experiences create a bond among women who have encountered harassment in various forms.
However, the realities of foster children are often foreign to most of us. Confronting the systemic failures that place impoverished families and their children at risk is a daunting and uncomfortable task that many choose to avoid. Consequently, the stories of these children may remain untold and unheard.
While movements like #TimesUp and #MeToo continue to gain traction, we must ask ourselves which platforms we can utilize to advocate for those most at risk. Some states are beginning to explore legislation aimed at protecting children, such as New York’s Child Victims Act, but this is merely a starting point, not a comprehensive solution.
Awareness and education are vital. Instead of shying away from the painful realities of abuse within the foster care system, we should educate ourselves about the facts and use our influence to amplify the voices of those who remain silent.
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In summary, while movements for women’s rights are gaining momentum, we must not overlook the urgent needs of foster children, who are disproportionately affected by abuse. By educating ourselves and advocating for systemic change, we can work to ensure that these children have their stories heard and their needs addressed.