By: Emily Carter
There are mornings when I lace up my running shoes, not out of eagerness but because I’ve promised to meet my friends. We joke that among the three of us, we share a single motivation. On those days when I lack the drive—and believe me, that’s often—I still show up. I show up not just for the exercise but for the essential connection with my girlfriends.
Sure, we run, but more importantly, we engage in heartfelt conversations. In the serenity of the woods, surrounded by nature, we discuss everything under the sun. We share our thoughts about husbands, parenting struggles, moments of pride, and the fears that nag at us relentlessly. Our lives become open books. Sometimes, we may be moving at a pace that barely impacts our waistlines, but the time spent together nourishes our souls.
After these meet-ups, I always feel rejuvenated. It’s comforting to know that I’m not alone in facing life’s challenges—whether it’s dealing with difficult kids, annoying partners, or the fact that our bodies have changed over the years. We tackle issues like fifth-grade math homework or the reality of aging parents. I feel validated and understood.
Women truly see one another. We recognize the daily struggles because we share them. We empathize with the monotony of preparing dinner for picky eaters, folding endless laundry, and wiping down surfaces that seem to get dirty the moment you finish cleaning. Those unnoticed, exhausting tasks? Our friends see them.
Even if we don’t connect every day, we know that our friends will be there during important moments—often arriving with a casserole or our favorite coffee. It’s okay to break down sometimes because we have strong women around us who understand what we’re going through. They know the right words to say, like “You can handle this,” “Kids can be such a handful,” or even “I’ll bring over some wine.”
From the moment we recognize the differences between men and women, we understand that women need each other. Yes, our partners are wonderful, but they don’t grasp that insatiable craving for chocolate or the monthly struggle of being a woman. They can’t fully comprehend the unique bond between a mother and her child. But other women do.
Recently, when my friend needed to go to the ER, I was miles away and felt utterly helpless. I called her best friend, who was there in a flash, providing comfort and laughter. She did what true friends do—she showed up when it mattered most. Until I could get there, my friend’s companion stayed with her, and, of course, brought dinner when we returned home.
So, take a moment to hug your best friend, give her a call, or surprise her with a little gift because these relationships are life-long. Whether it’s meeting at the hospital, offering a comforting hug, or delivering soup and/or vodka, this is what women do for one another. The bond we share is unparalleled. Find your tribe and cherish those connections.
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Summary
Women consistently need each other for support, understanding, and companionship. Through shared experiences and open communication, friendships among women provide a vital source of strength and comfort. These connections help us navigate the complexities of life together, ensuring we never feel alone in our struggles.