But really, why do we care? Our interest in your relationship is probably as relevant as a peasant’s opinion of the ruling class in revolutionary France—not much. After all, you two seem to have it all.
Living in the Pacific Palisades, a glamorous coastal enclave frequented by Hollywood’s elite, you share your space with the likes of famous filmmakers and actors. With three beautiful children, a wealth that many only dream of, and successful careers loaded with accolades, you seem to live a charmed life. From our vantage point—primarily through the glossy pages of celebrity magazines—it appears that your lives are an endless vacation rather than a tedious grind.
Yet, we recognize that beneath the glitzy exterior, you are human. We can empathize with the struggles you face, and that’s why we feel a genuine sadness at the thought of your ten-year marriage hitting a rough patch.
I remember my own “we’re not in Kansas anymore” moment after moving to Santa Monica in 2008, just a stone’s throw from Brentwood, where Alex and Mia began their family. One evening, we found ourselves in a health-conscious Mexican restaurant—yes, that’s a thing in Los Angeles—when my then one-year-old daughter, Daisy, caught the attention of a stranger. It turned out to be Mia, playing peek-a-boo with my little one. Daisy—a child with striking blue eyes—was enchanted, squealing and clapping her hands. Alex, who had just picked up one of their kids, flashed us a smile as they left, reminding me that they are just another couple trying to navigate the challenges of family life, like the rest of us.
Over the years, I would occasionally see them around our neighborhood. Mia often faced the relentless attention of paparazzi, which made her look overwhelmed as she tried to go about her day. I recall a date night my husband and I had at a lovely restaurant, where Alex and Mia were seated nearby, quietly enjoying each other’s company, clearly trying to reconnect amidst their busy lives.
I must admit, I’ve been rooting for them. Many people have, even if they haven’t crossed paths with the couple in real life. In a world inundated with celebrity news, it’s hard to ignore the narratives surrounding famous relationships.
For those of us who follow such off-screen dramas, it raises a question: If a couple like Alex and Mia can’t sustain their marriage, what hope do the rest of us have? They possess every resource imaginable—nannies, financial security, and support systems. Yet, perhaps our strength lies in the everyday struggles that bring us closer, the teamwork required to overcome obstacles, and the bonds formed through shared experiences.
So, Alex and Mia, I genuinely wish you the best.
This article was originally published on May 29, 2015.
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In summary, our emotional investment in celebrity relationships like Alex and Mia’s stems from a shared human experience. Their struggles and triumphs echo our own, reminding us that love and commitment require work, regardless of one’s status.