There’s a saying that goes, “The state of your bed reflects the state of your head,” which implies that making your bed can boost happiness and productivity. If that’s true, then my mind must be a bit disheveled, but I’m perfectly fine with that.
I don’t require my kids to make their beds either. While it would be simple for them to do so, we all use duvets, which means there’s no need to tuck sheets or fold blankets. It’s about prioritizing our time and choosing our battles, and this task has never made the cut.
Here’s what the experts say about the benefits of bed-making, followed by my thoughts on each:
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It’s an Easy Task
They argue: Making your bed is so simple that it’s an excellent way to kick off your day and organize your thoughts.
I counter: I need a more compelling reason than that! I prefer to use my shower time to mentally plan my day, and my kids are usually not thinking beyond breakfast anyway. -
A Sense of Accomplishment
They state: According to a Navy Admiral, making your bed gives you a sense of pride and sets the tone for more accomplishments throughout the day.
I reply: I’ve already tackled numerous tasks before the kids are awake, like showering, dressing, and feeding the cat. They feel accomplished just getting to the breakfast table after a few calls from me. -
Visual Clarity
They suggest: A neat room decreases stress and enhances your living space’s appeal.
I say: The areas that genuinely stress me, like the kitchen and living room, are where I focus my decluttering efforts. My kids learn the value of a tidy space when they see how nice the living room looks after cleaning up. -
Boosting Productivity and Joy
They claim: Surveys indicate that bed-makers report higher happiness levels compared to those who don’t.
I think: I’m likely in the minority who enjoys my job and appreciates the extra time I gain by skipping bed-making. My kids are happier without the added pressure of this chore in their morning routine! -
Preparation for Unpleasant Tasks
They assert: Making your bed helps you practice for other tasks you may be reluctant to do.
I disagree: We already have plenty of chores that nobody enjoys, like brushing teeth and putting away dishes. I see no reason to add another practice task to our list. -
Gateway to Better Habits
They posit: Making your bed is a “keystone” habit that can lead to other positive behaviors.
I respond: Nobody in my house enjoys this task, and I find the idea of it leading to other habits to be a bit overhyped.
Interestingly, the article concludes by acknowledging some benefits of not making the bed, such as helping to control dust mites. So, perhaps we are just being proactive about keeping those pesky critters at bay!
Ultimately, we have many areas for improvement in our home. If skipping a small task like bed-making contributes to a more harmonious atmosphere, then I’m all for it.
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In summary, while making the bed is often touted as a vital habit, I believe it’s okay to let some things slide. Focusing on what truly matters can lead to a happier and more fulfilling family life.