Not too long ago, planning summers for my children felt like a form of self-inflicted agony. I was determined to fill every moment of their break with enriching experiences, predominantly at day camps that required early registration—often well before the first hints of summer warmth arrived.
The commitment for overnight camps is even more intense. Registration typically opens while the school year is still in full swing, and securing a spot often requires hefty deposits, particularly for those elite camps that allow applications to be submitted at the witching hour. It’s quite a spectacle, really—parents racing against each other to snatch up a limited number of coveted places, especially for those highly sought-after June sessions. I must admit, there is something appealing about the transition from school to camp; it offers a brief respite for parents, especially following the chaotic month of May.
However, this summer, I’ve decided to forgo the allure of camp altogether. My decision is not solely driven by the prospect of saving a significant amount of money—or avoiding the daunting specter of credit card debt—but rather a conscious choice to step back from the meticulously orchestrated agendas set by seemingly benign organizations like the YMCA. Despite its innocent reputation, the YMCA operates like the Ritz-Carlton of summer camps, with a price tag to match.
For instance, two weeks of adventure-filled days at the YMCA can cost around $2,589. Add to that a few hundred dollars for the necessary bedding and overpriced branded gear, and you quickly realize how easily summer plans can escalate. I’ve spent the last few summers shuttling my kids to various camps, some requiring air travel, only to find that they opted not to return. At this point, I could have invested in a golf cart to navigate our neighborhood instead!
Yet, we won’t be spending the summer glued to our couches or staring at screens. Our days will be filled with beach outings, journaling, and trips to the library when we need a break from the sun and surf. We plan to explore nearby small towns and local museums at our leisure, all while being more adventurous on our own terms.
While I don’t aim to be completely lazy this summer, I do wonder if the freedom of having no plans will bring a sense of calm amidst the chaos of managing four children. We intend to embrace this flexibility, making choices that cater to each family member’s needs as they arise. I look forward to quality time exploring local ecosystems, sailing, swimming, and enjoying the simple pleasures of tidal pools. Perhaps a lack of structure is precisely what we need to rejuvenate ourselves.
With 77 days of freedom from school, our plan of “no plans” might just be the best decision yet. With the funds saved from not enrolling in camp, we could take a mountain trip or even invest in that golf cart after all. However, after just one week with two rambunctious boys, one spirited daughter, and a special needs toddler, I may quickly remember why summer camps are so appealing. Still, I’m determined to seize the opportunity to relish the freedom I often overlook. This could be the summer filled with days of adventure that blend into one beautiful memory—a summer worth taking a chance on.
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Summary:
This summer, I’ve decided to skip the traditional camp route and embrace a more flexible approach to family time. Rather than filling every hour with structured activities, we plan to explore local attractions, enjoy beach days, and nurture our creativity. This shift not only saves money but also allows us to create lasting memories together without the constraints of a rigid schedule.