I’m a laid-back mom, but when it comes to my kids’ sleep schedule, I’m unwavering. My children might munch on Cheerios that have found their way to the floor, and we have a flexible approach to where they sleep. We’ve spent plenty of time at my friend’s place, a certain mouse-themed clubhouse you might be familiar with.
It’s not that I’m lazy; it’s more about navigating the chaos of life. With two kids, two dogs, and a husband who disappears into the daily grind, I’ve learned to prioritize my sanity. And one of the crucial ways I do that is by sticking to my kids’ sleep schedule, no matter what.
From the moment my little alarms wake me up, our home transforms into a whirlwind of Cheerios, toddler toys, and the occasional “How did you get that fork?” I’ll admit, I’m usually daydreaming about nap time just 45 minutes into our day. So, when a text invites me out for lunch, my response is always a firm “Nope, sorry.”
My children need their naps. I understand some parents boast about their magical kids who can skip naps without consequence, but I’ve learned the hard way that skipping sleep leads to chaos. When my kids miss their nap, it’s a recipe for disaster—tantrums erupt, sippy cups go flying, and my one-year-old’s wails could shatter glass. Honestly, the thought of a delicious bowl of pho doesn’t even compare to the sanity I need during that precious hour of quiet.
Let’s be real: my need for their naps isn’t entirely altruistic. Those moments of silence are my only chance to relax without being interrupted. However, sticking to the schedule can complicate things, especially during beach vacations. There’s nothing more disheartening than hauling snacks and gear to the beach only to declare, “Time for a nap!” I get it; nobody enjoys hearing that, but we have our rules. Nap time is sacred—it’s essential for our well-being.
I’ve learned my lessons the hard way. Late-night outings? Not happening if it means my kids will miss their bedtime. My dad used to say, “You can’t hoot with the owls if you want to soar with the eagles,” which translates to: if you want to regret your choices, stay up late and wake up early with children. So if my husband and I plan a late evening, we enlist a babysitter. By 8 PM—okay, maybe 9 PM—those little ones are tucked in, dreaming sweetly.
Call me strict or uptight; I’m fine with it. While others may be enjoying the moment, I’ll be on the couch, savoring my coffee in the blissful silence that comes from adhering to our sleep schedule.
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In summary, while I may seem like a stickler for rules, the reality is that I’m just a mom trying to maintain some semblance of peace in the chaos. Sticking to our sleep routine isn’t just about my kids; it’s about preserving our family’s sanity.