Kids can really drain your finances. It’s not just a mild surprise at how much things cost; it’s more like a punch to the gut when you realize that your budget is tighter than you imagined. Seriously, if I didn’t have kids, I could be living in my dream penthouse or possibly plotting world domination!
If I were child-free, my life would look a lot different. I might be hoarding my DINK (Dual Income No Kids) savings like a financial wizard, or maybe I’d dive into film production focused solely on heartwarming stories about adventurous cats. The possibilities would be endless!
But in reality, I’m in the thick of parenting, and my children rely on me for everything—food, shelter, clothing, healthcare, and education. It’s a never-ending cycle of expenses, and by the time I’ve covered their needs, I often find myself with little left for personal enjoyment. And let’s be real: even after I’m gone, my kids will likely be scouring my pockets for spare change!
That’s why I make it a priority to set aside a little money for myself, and I refuse to feel guilty about it. I work hard, and I believe I deserve to enjoy the fruits of my labor—as long as my kids have everything they need, of course. If my son needs his allergy medication and some snacks, I’ll make sure to get that first. After that, any spare change is fair game for me!
Here are 13 indulgences I’ll never feel bad about purchasing, because honestly, I’ve earned them:
- Beer: If anyone should feel guilty about my beer purchases, it’s the kids, considering they often drive me to drink!
- Bourbon: Same reasoning applies here.
- Wine: I stand by my previous statement.
- Vodka: Let’s just say this is for my wife!
- Shake Shack: Who can resist a good burger?
- Beer at Shake Shack: Okay, I might have a problem.
- Movie Tickets: While I’d love to see a film, I refuse to support the babysitter black market! This is about principle.
- Concert Tickets: Again, babysitter fees make this a no-go! #NOPE #STAYHOME
- Pizza: I may worry more about our pizza habit than our drinking, but that doesn’t mean I feel guilty about it!
- Books: Wait, what?
- Library Late Fees: This is more accurate.
- Music: It’s essential, especially with the chaos of little ones around.
- Babysitters: Sometimes, you just need a night out, period.
There’s already so much guilt associated with parenting; I won’t add to it by feeling bad about enjoying the little luxuries in life. I save my guilt for real issues—like paying for a gym membership I never use or watching movies starring actors I’m not particularly fond of.
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Summary:
Parenting comes with significant financial responsibilities, but that doesn’t mean you should feel guilty about treating yourself. Setting aside funds for personal indulgences is a way to maintain balance and mental health amidst the chaos of raising children. Enjoying small luxuries is not only acceptable but necessary for many parents.