“Many of us enjoy different aspects of life—like fashion, literature, and self-expression—but societal norms often force us to present only select parts of ourselves.” – Inspired by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
At a recent family dinner, our conversation took an unexpected turn toward grooming habits. “Historically, female grooming practices like shaving have aimed to maintain a juvenile and submissive appearance in women.” I shared this thought with my family while we enjoyed our meal, and my 12-year-old son immediately responded, “Seriously, Mom? So I should be upset that I can run around shirtless while Mia can’t?” Clearly, my point was made.
With increasing discourse around women’s rights and feminism in the media, it’s apparent that the conversation is evolving. Notably, Alicia Keys has made headlines by releasing an album featuring her bare face, embracing the #nomakeupmovement. In her essay “Time to Uncover,” she shares her journey towards authenticity: “I refuse to cover up—my face, my mind, my soul, my dreams, or my struggles. Nothing.” This is a powerful statement of self-acceptance and liberation.
Personally, I rarely wear makeup; it’s actually more remarkable when I do. My hair, long and wild, often requires a wash but can be styled into a messy bun that I find charming. About 80% of my wardrobe consists of workout clothes, which might suggest I don’t prioritize appearance. Yet, I believe this mirrors my life’s choices.
Alicia Keys’ message goes beyond simply her unadorned face. She has dismantled her protective barriers to reveal her true self—the beautiful, flawed, and everything in between. She has tapped into an immense strength by prioritizing her own voice over societal pressures. This journey of self-ownership is a testament to her empowerment.
In a piece for New York Magazine, writer Jessica Parks reflects on Hillary Clinton’s decision to appear makeup-free during a post-election press conference. Clinton had spent months carefully curated but chose to reveal her authentic self, showcasing that enjoying beauty products doesn’t detract from one’s feminist stance or career goals. The essence lies in the freedom that comes with rejecting societal vanity standards.
The themes of power and choice resonate deeply. They emphasize individual preference over cultural expectations. I’m not suggesting that women should abandon shaving or makeup entirely. Rather, I encourage a thoughtful examination of what motivates our grooming choices. As author Rosie Molinary states, “Beauty standards are a political issue. If you’re consumed by them, you’re likely oppressed.”
When I rush to prepare for work and my 10-year-old daughter remarks that I care too much about others’ opinions, I feel compelled to justify my choices. How do I teach her that my grooming decisions are personal and professional? While I choose to dress a certain way for work, I prefer a more natural look in my everyday life. I embrace the idea of being multi-dimensional and comfortable revealing different aspects of myself, without it implying I’m hiding my true identity.
Although I’m tempted to join Alicia’s movement by tossing out my makeup and donning a messy bun, I recognize that personal grooming choices reflect deeper values. The ways I express my power and freedom should resonate throughout my daily life. Responses like “just because” or “that’s how it’s always been” are insufficient explanations for how I choose to live. I need to hold myself to higher standards.
For now, I’ll continue to shave and occasionally wear makeup—because those are my choices. I don’t need to forgo grooming to make a grand statement about feminism. Instead, I’ll strive to be conscious of the motivations behind my decisions. Understanding the framework of my identity as a woman in today’s society is crucial, especially as I navigate the many issues deserving of scrutiny. Together, let’s uncover our truths.
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Summary
In a world where societal norms often dictate grooming habits, embracing a makeup-free lifestyle can lead to empowerment and self-acceptance. Influential figures like Alicia Keys have sparked conversations about authenticity and freedom from beauty standards. Women can navigate their personal grooming choices while remaining aware of the cultural implications behind them, fostering a deeper connection with their true selves.