Last year’s holiday gift exchange brought a surprising twist when a friend presented our coffee group with Bombas socks and pink pepper spray keychains. This year, I plan to gift my nieces gadgets like lipstick tasers or tactical pens. These stylish self-defense tools are not only practical but also ideal for slipping into any woman’s Christmas stocking!
It’s absurd that we even need to consider arming ourselves. The harsh reality is that many women feel the need to protect themselves simply because of their gender. British barrister Harriet Johnson expressed this sentiment clearly in a viral tweet following the tragic disappearance of Sarah Everard.
From a young age, I was taught by my mother to defend myself fiercely if ever attacked. My friends and I learned to use our keys as makeshift weapons and were advised to shout “fire” instead of “rape” to attract help. I once tried carrying pepper spray, but a chaotic incident involving a student’s mischief led to my ban from bringing such items to school.
I also attempted to use a Kitty Kat self-defense keychain—a clever design resembling a cat’s head. Unfortunately, it was confiscated by a police officer who deemed it too dangerous. It’s disheartening that we need to navigate through a maze of laws regarding self-defense weapons. In some states, stun guns are illegal, while in others, they’re permitted under strict conditions.
In an insightful article for Motherly, Jamie Orsini argues that rather than focusing on women’s self-defense, we need to shift the responsibility toward men to prevent violence. I wholeheartedly agree. The attitudes some men express about assault are alarming. Humorous comments about rape reflect a societal problem that still persists today.
Until we can confidently say that our daughters can navigate the world without fear, I’ll be wrapping up a shiny, albeit potentially dangerous, Kitty Kat for each of my nieces this holiday season. I’ll be putting one in my own stocking too.
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In summary, the necessity for women to arm themselves with self-defense tools is a troubling reality. Gifts that promote safety, like tactical pens or other self-defense gadgets, are becoming essential in a world where women’s safety is still a concern. While it’s unfortunate that such measures are necessary, they remain a part of our reality until societal attitudes shift.