Growing up in a quaint coastal town in California that few might recognize, I enjoyed the beauty of living just five minutes from the beach. With a nearly perfect climate of 62 degrees and an abundance of sunshine—about 528 days a year—my friends and family would bask in the sun, applying lotion and soaking up rays. Meanwhile, I was sidelined from their sun-soaked adventures.
I am albino.
To put it simply, tanning is not an option for me, and my eyesight is significantly impaired. Without my glasses, my vision is 20/400—twenty times worse than that of someone with normal sight. Even with corrective lenses, I struggle to read street signs unless I’m nearly on top of them. Subtitles? Forget it—unless they’re on a movie screen, I can’t see them. My computer screen? Everything is enlarged just so I can manage without squinting. That blazing sun? My sworn enemy.
As superficial as it may seem, it’s tough to get sunburned while everyone else achieves that enviable sun-kissed glow.
Growing up with albinism wasn’t a walk in the park. Kids can be merciless, and it’s often the most visible target that suffers. I faced my share of taunts during childhood, enduring nicknames like “Marshmallow,” “Coconut,” and “Whiteout.” These slurs were silly, but they were painful all the same. In class, I was always relegated to the front row and had to request printed copies of projected materials because they were unreadable to me. It wasn’t necessarily painful, but it certainly presented its challenges.
Looking back now, I realize that my experience was an unusual blessing. The most meaningful gifts often come in unexpected forms. Being albino didn’t set me apart; it made me unforgettable.
Everyone remembers the pale girl from school. I was distinctive. When I visit my hometown, former teachers often recognize me at the local café, even if they can’t recall my name. They remember that I was a good student, known for being kind and respectful. My sister still resides there and frequently meets people from school who ask about me—not out of curiosity about my differences, but because I was memorable.
In a world filled with countless tanned individuals, albinos like me are a rarity, approximately 1 in 17,000. If you encounter one, it’s likely they’ll stick in your mind. You may wonder, “Why doesn’t she just get a tan?” during the height of summer, but ultimately, my uniqueness is what leaves an impression.
And here’s the best part: you’re memorable too. Albinos don’t monopolize the memorable category. Were you the only Emma in a sea of Sarahs? That made you unforgettable. Did you have a unique hairstyle or a distinctive laugh? That made you stand out.
I want my children to understand that being memorable is a gift, not a burden. It means being special in a way that’s beautiful. I’ve learned to appreciate my albinism, and if there’s one takeaway from my journey, it’s this: I never have to fret about tan lines.
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In summary, embracing my identity as an albino has transformed my perspective from one of feeling different to understanding that I am memorable. My experiences, while challenging, have shaped me into who I am today, and I celebrate that uniqueness.