During my child’s game, I won’t be engaging in conversation, and here’s why.
Regardless of when I arrive—be it early or just in time for the first whistle—my choice remains the same. It doesn’t matter if we share a long friendship or just a few brief greetings. Even if the sidelines are crowded or the stands are filling up for a championship match, I find myself sitting alone.
This isn’t due to being anti-social; on the contrary, I enjoy being around people. I’m friendly and love connecting with fellow parents and cheering on the kids. I wave, exchange pleasantries, and enjoy light conversations—but once the game starts, my focus shifts.
The truth is, the days may be long, but the years are fleeting. I recall the hectic weekends filled with back-to-back games, where I felt overwhelmed. Now, I would give anything to relive those moments, where our SUV served as a makeshift locker room stuffed with uniforms, snacks, and water bottles. Those were the days.
These days, my kids drive themselves to their activities, but I still make it a priority to be present when the game begins. I miss those early morning arrivals and the night-before rituals of packing snacks and blankets. Despite the nostalgia, I choose to sit alone during the games.
Why This Choice Matters
Why? Because I don’t want my child to look up and see me engaged in a conversation with someone else, or distracted by my phone. I want to capture every moment—every hit, every play—so I can share those experiences later. I live for the moments when my child says, “Thanks for recording my hit, Mom.”
I refuse to let myself get sidetracked by discussions about playing time or complaints about coaching. I’ve realized that it’s better to focus on the game itself rather than engage in sideline chatter. I want my kids to remember that I was present for almost every game, paying attention to details that we can discuss later. If my daughter mentions a player who was challenging her, I want to be able to say, “I saw that, too.”
This choice to sit alone is mine, and I embrace it.
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Conclusion
In summary, sitting alone at my child’s games allows me to be fully present, ensuring I can engage meaningfully with them afterward. This choice fosters lasting memories and deeper connections.