In my household, intimate acts of pleasure have become a near-daily ritual. Now, before you jump to conclusions or click away in disbelief, let me emphasize this point: HE DOES NOT EXPECT IT. If he ever approached me with an air of entitlement, I’d make it clear that his assumptions were misplaced — and trust me, that would not end well for him.
The truth is, my decision to engage in these acts is entirely my own. I don’t view them as a “wifely duty” or something I owe him because he provides for our family. That notion is outdated and frankly ridiculous. I’m certainly not trying to barter for favors, nor is there any cash incentive involved.
Instead, I genuinely enjoy bringing him joy, and I’ve found that this particular act is an effective way to do so. I offer my partner pleasure because it makes him happy, and I love him for who he is. It really is that straightforward.
For those who have shared intimate moments with a long-term partner, you know these encounters are usually brief. (Unless you’re doing something inadvertently painful, in which case, perhaps consider looking up some techniques.) If I can spare just a few minutes of my day to provide my partner with something he enjoys – something he truly appreciates – why wouldn’t I?
Of course, this notion isn’t limited to physical intimacy. If your partner’s love language is acts of service, why not surprise them with a lovely meal or a favorite snack? A simple gesture, like leaving an umbrella by the door on a rainy day or bringing home their favorite drinks, can brighten their day. In my case, it just so happens that one of those gestures involves intimacy.
This small act creates a positive ripple effect. You might be surprised at how easy it is to live with a partner who feels satisfied regularly. Happy partners contribute to a harmonious household, and that benefits everyone involved. Additionally, there’s evidence suggesting that frequent ejaculation can lower the risk of prostate cancer, making it a health-conscious decision as well. It’s not that different from when I ensure he takes his vitamins at dinner.
Let me clarify: I’m not implying that everyone needs to engage in this kind of activity. If you’re someone who finds it unappealing or triggering, that’s completely valid. But if you’re open to it, you may find surprising benefits. A spontaneous act of intimacy can create a lasting smile, far beyond a cup of coffee in the morning.
In conclusion, while this may not be for everyone, I’ve found that this simple expression of love contributes positively to my relationship and overall family dynamic. If you’re curious to explore different ways to enhance your connection, check out resources like Make A Mom’s artificial insemination kit or March of Dimes for pregnancy week-by-week insights.
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