Oh, Mama, I can hear you. You’re in the depths of self-doubt, questioning your abilities and criticizing yourself harshly. You think, “I am a terrible mom. I can’t do anything right.”
Perhaps today wasn’t your best. Maybe you lost your cool and yelled at your daughter, or you reacted in anger and spanked your son. You might have left the TV on all afternoon just to find a moment of peace—whether to cook, clean, work, or simply reclaim a bit of your sanity. You let the screen entertain your child, hoping they wouldn’t notice your tears. You even opted for a dinner of Raisin Bran, Parmesan cheese, hot dogs, and ketchup, and now you feel like the worst parent.
But here’s the truth: if you were genuinely a bad mom, you wouldn’t feel this way. You wouldn’t care about healthy eating or educational activities. You wouldn’t be concerned that your words might hurt your child. You wouldn’t be hiding in the closet, crying while your little one plays blissfully unaware. You wouldn’t feel consumed by guilt.
Your very reactions show your love and concern. They demonstrate that you care deeply and selflessly for your child’s well-being.
So when that negative voice starts to creep in, remember that occasional chicken nuggets and a few cartoons don’t do lasting harm. Yes, you will make mistakes—that’s part of being human. But these slip-ups can also be valuable learning opportunities that help you grow and strengthen your bond with your child.
Your experiences make you a better woman, a better partner, a better friend, and yes, a better mom. You are enough. You are doing enough. Despite any perceived “failures,” you are a good mom. You are a great mom.
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In summary, don’t be too hard on yourself. Embrace your imperfections, learn from your experiences, and remember that you are doing your best.