As a parent, it’s tough to see strangers gaze at my youngest daughter, Mia. Each stare feels like a stab to the heart, conjuring up the worst thoughts about what they might be thinking. I often want to shout, “She just has an extra chromosome!” but I usually hold back. Instead, I scoop my little darling into my arms, snuggle her close, and whisper sweet affirmations of love into her ear.
It frustrates me when people fixate on her. Yet, I find myself doing the same thing — staring at Mia because she’s simply captivating. From her enchanting almond-shaped eyes to her adorable little toes, she steals my gaze. Her hair, a delightful mix of hues, and the tiny mole on her finger add to her charm. Even the scars on her chest and tummy are beautiful to me, each one telling a tale of her journey.
Mia’s courage is another reason I can’t help but look at her in awe. At barely 4 years old, she’s already faced heart surgery, bowel hernia surgery, neutropenia, and a cancer scare. Recent tests revealed she has celiac disease. How does she carry such a heavy load with such grace? Though small in stature, she has a spirit that looms large.
So, please, look at her! This time, it’s perfectly acceptable to stare. I hope you see her as I do. Yes, her Down syndrome makes her different, but can you appreciate how stunning that difference is? Can you feel her infectious smile?
Can you see how she dances to the rhythm of her own heart, even without music? Do you notice how she pushes through challenges that life throws her way? Look at the way she laughs with her whole being. Witness her capacity to love, fully and without reservation.
Do you recognize how she truly lives, while many of us merely exist? If you see what I see, I’ll know it in the way you look at Mia. I can always tell when someone truly understands her essence — it’s a palpable connection that makes my heart swell.
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Summary
This heartfelt reflection emphasizes the beauty and strength of a child with Down syndrome, encouraging others to look beyond the surface and appreciate the unique qualities that make her special. The author expresses a desire for understanding and connection, inviting others to share in the joy and resilience of their loved ones.