Every time I watch a makeover show, the first thing the stylist suggests for a mom is to chop off her hair. The mom often responds with, “I need it long enough to pull back.” Yet, the stylist insists on a trendy cut, claiming she needs a “look.” But the mom already has a style—it’s the practical “I need this hair out of my face so I can tackle my to-do list,” and she’s serious about it.
Moms quickly recognize the burden of their hair when serious tasks are looming. It can feel irritating and cumbersome, making them eager to get it off their necks and away from their eyes. When you see a mom pull her hair up, you know it’s time to get down to business. Moms practically invented the messy bun trend, and while it looks chic, it’s really a signal that they’re about to dive into some intense cleaning, prepare the kids for bed, or snack on five tacos. Looking stylish is the least of their concerns; they just need their hair out of the way.
I’ve seen countless moms do this—even those with short hair can pull off a little ponytail. It gives them the energy to be productive. With their hair secured, moms feel empowered and ready to take on anything. Don’t bother them with questions; they’re in the zone, planning how to conquer their tasks like the powerhouse they are.
In the morning rush, a messy bun becomes the go-to solution. In the afternoon, when stress levels rise and the witching hour looms, they reach for an elastic to secure their hair and take charge of the day. By evening, relaxation kicks in as they shed their bra and loosen their pants, throwing their hair into a quick updo. The only reason they’d consider re-styling is if someone like Jon Hamm showed up at their door—though even then, comfort might win out.
While long, flowing hair is lovely, nothing beats the feeling of getting it pulled back into a ponytail or bun. It enhances productivity, making moms better at their jobs, whether that’s parenting or scrubbing the tub (which, yes, is part of their role). When hair is in their face, it can be frustrating, but when it’s contained, they can tackle tasks with renewed vigor.
I never leave home without an elastic hair band on my wrist or in my bag. It’s an essential item because I know my hair will need to be tamed at some point. As much as I enjoy letting my hair down, I’m never quite ready to manage it all day. Now, where did that elastic go?
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In summary, when a mom pulls her hair back, it’s a clear sign that she’s ready to get serious about whatever task is at hand. This simple act represents empowerment and focus, allowing her to tackle the chaos of motherhood head-on.