Updated: July 16, 2019
Originally Published: November 22, 2010
Having traveled to China three times to welcome our three children into our family, I can confidently say that packing for an adoption trip is a unique challenge. Unlike a typical vacation where you might just throw in some clothes, comfortable shoes, and snacks, preparing for an adoption journey feels more like attempting to fit your entire home into a suitcase. With a strict fifty-pound luggage limit, it can be overwhelming to decide what to take along.
During our most recent trip in March 2012, my husband and I were accompanied by our two older boys, who were six and seven at the time. The 17-day journey took us through four major cities in China, and the stakes were high:
17 days abroad + a new child who may not understand you + potential illnesses – comforts of home = utter chaos!
To make our transition smoother, it’s essential to anticipate every discomfort imaginable—because chances are, it will occur. Here’s a comprehensive list of what to pack for your adoption trip:
- Snacks: While I enjoy sampling local cuisine, after a few days of unfamiliar dishes, I find myself craving comforting snacks from home—think granola bars, fruit snacks, and cookies. Our picky eater often preferred ramen noodles, which made up a significant portion of our meals.
- Medicines: You might think “what if I get sick?” but let’s be real, you will get sick. The likelihood of falling ill during an adoption trip seems to skyrocket. Pack medications for a range of ailments: stomach issues, headaches, and even scabies (we faced this unfortunate situation twice). It’s crucial to have antibiotics on hand—trust me, you don’t want to deal with a misdiagnosis in a foreign hospital.
- Clothing: Bring enough outfits for at least five days, and don’t forget a swimsuit if the weather permits. It’s wise to pack laundry detergent for washing clothes in the sink, especially if you’re stuck in your hotel room with nothing to do. Also, be cautious when selecting clothes for your new child; sizes can differ greatly, so it’s best to avoid guessing.
- Gifts: In Chinese culture, it’s customary to present gifts to various officials and caregivers during the adoption process. Prepare gifts beforehand, and remember to bring bags and tissue paper for wrapping, as you’ll likely not witness the opening of the gifts.
- Important Documents: Keep your paperwork and passports close at hand; they are essential to the entire process. A Chinese-English dictionary might come in handy, even if you think you won’t need it.
- Cash: You’ll likely need to carry a substantial amount of money, which can feel daunting. Be prepared to donate a portion to the orphanage before your journey ends.
- Flight Essentials: Long flights may be part of your experience, so pack entertainment and snacks. A change of clothes is also a good idea in case your luggage gets misplaced. Lollipops can be a lifesaver for calming anxious little ones during turbulence.
- Room Entertainment: You’ll find yourself spending extended periods in your hotel room, so be sure to bring along devices or books to keep both you and your child entertained. Don’t forget to pack plug adapters!
- Transportation Gear: A stroller or baby carrier is essential for navigating airports and cities. Make sure it’s sturdy enough to accommodate your child’s weight.
- An Open Heart: Prepare yourself emotionally for this journey. Like childbirth, the adoption process can be challenging, but the joy and love that comes from it will far outweigh the obstacles.
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In summary, packing for an adoption trip requires careful consideration of your family’s needs, both for comfort and for the process of bringing your new child home. Anticipate challenges and embrace the journey with love and patience.