Hey buddy,
You might recall that I wrote something similar for Mother’s Day, where I asked you to behave so your mom could truly enjoy her special day. This message is a bit different, though. This time, it’s about me, and I can be more candid. Plus, until football season kicks off, Sundays don’t hold much meaning for me. Even this upcoming one.
That’s right—this Sunday is Father’s Day. But here’s the deal: there’s no need to stress about it. I’m not asking for anything from you. I don’t want a tie, a handmade card, golf lessons, or even a subscription to a beer-of-the-month club. Honestly, I don’t even need you to be on your absolute best behavior (though, let’s be real, you should always aim for that). Just relax and enjoy the day.
Surprised? When I was your age, I couldn’t fathom why my father, your granddad, never seemed to want anything for Father’s Day, Christmas, or even his birthday—except for the old “just get along with your brothers” wish. For kids, gifts are everything, and it baffled me that he didn’t want any. But now, as a father myself, I completely understand his perspective.
Firstly, kids often give the worst gifts. Secondly, as a parent, you quickly realize that the best gifts aren’t found in boxes or envelopes. The true treasures are the hugs I get when putting you to bed, the laughter during our tickle fights, or those 30 extra minutes of sleep you let me have every few weekends. None of those moments are planned or tied to a specific holiday; they’re simply you being yourself—and that’s all I really need, every single day.
Father’s Day doesn’t change anything for me. It’s just another Sunday, and I don’t need a fancy brunch to acknowledge my so-called sacrifices or hard work, especially not from you. Why should my child reward me for not being a lousy father? I know I’m doing alright. I’m not saying I’m the best dad ever, but I love being your father, and I don’t need any acknowledgment for simply doing what I’m supposed to do.
You might be wondering if this means you can skip being nice to your mom on Mother’s Day too. That’s up to her (here’s a hint: probably not). And we’re not getting rid of Father’s Day, either. These holidays exist not just to celebrate those being honored, but also for the ones who celebrate. It’s all about the joy that comes from expressing love for our family members. Why do you think you get so many gifts at Christmas? It’s because seeing you happy brings me joy. And that’s truly the only gift I need this weekend.
Well, that’s the main gift I want from you. Because Father’s Day? That’s really Mommy’s responsibility.
Love,
Your Dad
P.S. I wouldn’t mind one of those beer-of-the-month club subscriptions. Oh, and tickets to Mad Max: Fury Road. Just let your mom know!