As the eldest daughter, I strive to embody a significant lesson my mother imparted: if something needs to be done, take matters into your own hands.
For instance, she once replaced a toilet with nothing but a butter knife and sheer determination. There was a time when she realized the dining room drywall needed an upgrade; without hesitation, she punched a hole in the wall and got to work. Our dining room walls remained in a half-finished state for years, yet she saw the project through entirely on her own.
When she decided a hot water heater had to go, she didn’t wait for anyone—she simply dragged it from the basement to the curb by herself, because it was necessary and no one else was available.
While my mother isn’t averse to asking for help, especially when we visit her, there’s a certain urgency in her approach. My partner often finds himself warmly welcomed at her door, along with a friendly request for assistance with various pieces of furniture—just a few things to tackle before he heads home. More times than I can count, my siblings and I have been summoned from different parts of the house by her unmistakable voice, strained with effort, signaling that she needed help rolling up a large carpet.
If our family had a motto, it would undoubtedly be, “Get in here and lend a hand!”
Her proactive nature might stem from impatience, a desire to complete tasks promptly, or perhaps a strong independent spirit that has helped her navigate challenges throughout her life. It could even be a lack of impulse control; she often takes on projects without the necessary tools or assistance that most would require.
Regardless of what drives her—whether it’s impatience, independence, or simply a desire to get things done—the lesson remains clear: no matter how daunting a task may seem, or how long it may take, I can accomplish it on my own if I truly try.
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In summary, my mother’s example has taught me that with determination and initiative, I can tackle any challenge that comes my way, no matter the obstacles.