When people discover that I’m a mother of triplets, their curiosity often leads to two main questions: How do I manage daily life with three kids, and what’s it like to have triplets? I typically respond with something like, “It’s pretty much what you’d expect… total chaos” or “Picture three of your child.” However, most folks struggle to truly comprehend that scenario. Before having my own triplets, I was in the same position. I remember watching my friend Lisa juggle her twins while my eldest was just a toddler, and I thought, “There’s no way I could handle two!” Thankfully, I never had to learn to manage twins—just triplets.
So, what’s it like to raise triplets? Here’s my perspective based on life with three energetic toddlers:
Having triplets means washing pee-soaked sheets nearly every morning due to bedwetting incidents. It’s going through an astonishing 212 newborn-sized diapers in just over a week. It involves fielding intrusive questions from strangers, such as “Are they natural?” or “Did you really have to get busy three times in one night to conceive them?”
Feeding time can be a whirlwind. I went through a pitcher of formula in just one day. The phrase “me too” becomes a constant refrain. Other parents may cast disapproving glances, but I secretly enjoy the camaraderie my kids cultivate with one another, even when they tend to team up against others.
One of the perks? They always have a playmate, which gives me a bit of breathing room. But it also means dealing with chaos: one child might shove a shirt into the toilet, another is coloring on the walls, while a third is leaping off the couch—all at once. I find myself performing headcounts at playgrounds, ensuring I don’t lose any of my trio in the crowd.
There are times I feel like a failure when one baby has to cry because I can only hold two. My prayers often center around getting just two hours of uninterrupted sleep, which feels like a luxury. The scent of baby vomit has become a signature aroma for me, thanks to my reflux-prone little ones.
Driving becomes a necessity for minivan owners, and nothing compares to the overwhelming joy of receiving three simultaneous “I love you, Mommy” hugs. You’ll encounter judgmental stares and eye rolls, but you’ll also master the skills of rocking, burping, and feeding multiple babies at once. It’s almost a circus act—tripping over a child who’s always underfoot and frantically searching for three identical lovies to soothe my cranky toddlers into naptime.
Despite the challenges, I take pride in navigating each stage of development all at once and successfully getting dressed before leaving the house. The experience of having triplets is undeniably hectic, but it’s also filled with immense joy and love.
So, after reading this, are you tempted to try for triplets yourself?
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In summary, raising triplets is a unique blend of overwhelming chaos and profound joy. It’s a journey filled with challenges that can test your limits but also reward you with unforgettable moments of love and laughter.