Parenting Insights
Did you really think the days of deciphering teen-speak were behind you? Just when you thought your little ones were growing up and life would become simpler, welcome to the rollercoaster of puberty, where you must relearn the art of communicating with a perplexing foreign language.
What I say: We need to leave the house in five minutes or we’ll be late.
What my teens hear: Perfect time to try on every outfit in my closet, create a disaster zone on the floor, and spend an eternity in the bathroom.
What I say: Please go take a shower.
What my teens hear: Lock the door, turn on the water, and enjoy at least 45 minutes of uninterrupted ‘me time.’ You don’t even have to wash if you don’t feel like it.
What I say: I’m making a shopping list; what do you want for dinner next week?
What my teens hear: Food is coming! I’ll eat everything as soon as the groceries arrive, don’t worry, I’ll just make a quick trip for more if needed.
What I say: Time to get up and get ready for school.
What my teens hear: Just grunt so I know you’re alive, then I’ll keep coming back until it’s nearly time for the bus. I have nothing else planned anyway.
What I say: Clean your room, please.
What my teens hear: Hide everything under the bed or in the closet. And don’t forget to spray some air freshener to mask the smell; maybe even turn the vacuum on for a few minutes without actually moving it.
What I say: I’m on the phone; could you lower the volume on the TV, please?
What my teens hear: Blah blah blah, just turn it down a notch for a second, then crank it back up right after. Only boring adults keep the sound low.
What I say: I don’t think that’s appropriate for your age.
What my teens hear: I wish you’d watch it when I’m not around so I can act like it doesn’t bother me, but I need to pretend to care so I can complain later.
What I say: Did you put gas in the car last night?
What my teens hear: Did you put just enough gas to say “yes” to this question without actually filling up the tank?
What I say: Can you stop fighting for just 30 seconds?
What my teens hear: More yelling and potentially breaking something valuable sounds great. Oh, and if you can force me to yell a few more times before threatening you both with military school, that’d be awesome.
What I say: I need some help cleaning up in here.
What my teens hear: There’s a mysterious place I need to vanish to right now.
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In summary, our attempts to communicate with teenagers can often lead to amusing misunderstandings. As they navigate their own worlds, parents must adapt their messages and expectations.