When life throws you curveballs and you feel overwhelmed, whether it’s from relentless questions, sibling squabbles, or the all-too-familiar cries of “Mom, I’m hungry,” it’s easy to forget how much worse it could be—you could actually be sick.
Before becoming a mom, I envisioned sick days filled with cozy breakfasts in bed, sweet little notes (even if the spelling was off), and perfectly imperfect pancakes. The reality, however, is a stark contrast, and just thinking about it makes my head spin.
6 AM: The Morning Alarm
The alarm blares, pulling you from a restless sleep. On a typical morning, you have to rush down the hall to wake the kids and kick-start their day, all while trying to manage your own responsibilities. If only you could just hit snooze, call in sick, and roll back under the covers. But with little ones depending on you, that’s not an option. Who else will take care of them? Self-care feels like a distant dream. Thus, you muster the strength to trudge down the hallway (wrapped in a giant sweater to ward off those pesky chills).
Midday Struggles
Napping on the couch while Child #1 is at school and Child #2 is glued to Kinder Surprise Egg unboxing videos (seriously, what’s the deal with those?) is nearly impossible. My mind buzzes with a mental checklist of everything I should be doing. Child #2 demands lunch, so cereal it is, served with a side of string cheese. Just when I finally start to doze off, “Peppa Pig” blares in the background, and my alarm jolts me awake—it’s time to pick up Child #1. Great, I haven’t showered and I’m still in the same outfit from drop-off. Think anyone will notice?
Evening Choices
Dinner? Takeout is definitely the answer.
Bedtime Blessings
By now, I’ve consumed every over-the-counter remedy I can tolerate, and it’s time to switch to nighttime medication (hang in there, liver!). I silently hope it knocks me out so thoroughly that I can ignore the kids’ nighttime shenanigans, leaving my husband to handle the chaos. Just as I think I can finally sleep, I realize I drank way too much tea and orange juice today, and my bladder is having none of it.
Of course, just when I settle back into bed, Kid #1 wakes up terrified from a nightmare, and guess who’s right there in the hallway? Yep. Me.
Finally, I lay down, only for the 6 AM alarm to rear its ugly head once more.
When you’re a mom, “sick days” become a myth; the routine continues, and the responsibilities never cease. If you happen to fall ill on a weekend or when your partner is home, there’s a glimmer of hope for some assistance. Yet, we all know that handing over control is easier said than done.
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Summary
A mom’s sick day is a whirlwind of responsibilities, with little time for self-care or rest. From the moment the alarm rings to the nightly chaos, her day is filled with multitasking, even when she’s under the weather. The notion of a ‘sick day’ is a myth, as the demands of motherhood never truly pause, highlighting the resilience and strength that moms embody every day.