This is what 38 years of friendship embodies: effortless, genuine, and authentic. Nearly four decades ago, our mothers decided to become godmothers to each other’s newborn daughters. Fast forward twenty-seven years, and we stood side by side as each other’s maids of honor. Just three years later, we became godmothers to each other’s children. The countless moments we’ve shared are far too rich to encapsulate in mere words.
In our youth, I admired her adventurous spirit, her fearless nature, her unmatched ability to bring laughter, and her immense heart that welcomed everyone. Today, I still hold those same feelings, but I also have a newfound respect for how she has maintained those qualities while embracing adulthood. She has seamlessly woven her adventurous soul into her marriage, motherhood, and career.
Throughout the years, our friendship has evolved in many ways. Even though we haven’t lived in the same city for almost twenty years, this distance has only drawn us closer. After all, geography is just a measure of space, not a reflection of the heart. While it’s easy to take daily interactions for granted, our limited visits—only three times a year—make every moment we share incredibly precious.
We may not speak daily, but there’s nothing I wouldn’t share with her—I’ve shared it all. Our conversations have shifted from homework and crushes to home repairs and parenting challenges, yet we’ve always communicated in the same way. Together, we’ve navigated the trials of awkward teenage years, heartbreaks, and the joys of marriage and motherhood. Our bond has been forged through the shared experiences of growing up and aging together.
Here we are today: two moms with messy hair and crumbs on our shirts. (And, let’s be honest, not all of those crumbs are from our kids.) When she visits, I don’t tidy up; we don’t pretend our lives or families are perfect, but the love we share is undeniable.
Our children are so close they believe they are siblings. We’ve never tried to correct them, as family isn’t only about blood. Sometimes, the families we create—those we choose—are even stronger than the ones we’re born into.
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Summary
This article reflects on a deep and enduring friendship that spans 38 years, illustrating how shared experiences create unbreakable bonds. From childhood to motherhood, the connection remains strong despite physical distance, highlighting the essence of chosen family.