We embody a multitude of forms, perspectives, traditions, and life situations. Motherhood isn’t an innate trait; it isn’t a title we acquire effortlessly. Our expertise doesn’t come neatly packaged—it’s cultivated through observation, determination, resilience, and challenges. We are in the thick of it. Some of us are hands-on, while others take a more distant approach. Regardless of our parenting style, we face scrutiny, experience both admiration and disdain, and, thankfully, we are loved—though perhaps never as deeply as the love we hold for our children.
We are mothers.
We exist in a spectrum of relationships—single, married, divorced, LGBTQ+, or straight. We are flawless and flawed; we exhibit strength and gentleness; we contribute to the mental health field simply by being ourselves. We are the unlicensed physicians, always available to mend physical ailments and emotional wounds.
We play many roles: from cheerleaders to enforcers, from pragmatists to visionaries, from playmates to culinary experts, and even detectives. We are lifelong learners, adapting to whatever challenges the day presents.
Whether we work from home or in a corporate setting, our responsibilities are extensive, and our days often feel too brief. Our compensation may not come in monetary form, yet it can enrich us in ways that no store can replicate.
We are mothers.
Many of us act out of love, some seek recognition, and others simply do what needs to be done. Each of us possesses the profound ability to transform lives.
As a collective force nearing 90 million, we share a sisterhood, though at times we can be our harshest critics, forgetting the support we can offer one another. We are often our greatest source of motivation, bravery, wisdom, and compassion.
We are mothers.
As our earliest memories of our children begin to fade—their first steps, words, and school days—we strive to preserve these moments. We create scrapbooks, capture photographs, and hold these memories close to our hearts.
We are mothers.
Some of us believe that errors are unavoidable and that traditional methods reign supreme, while others argue that history serves as a lesson but shouldn’t dictate the future, which we must create anew.
Sooner than we expect, the future will unveil itself. Our children will become adults, and we’ll embark on new chapters separate from their lives. In those moments, when we gather with both old and new friends, we will be reminded not of our differences but of the one defining aspect that unites us all.
We are mothers.
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In summary, motherhood is a multifaceted journey that encompasses love, learning, and community. We share a unique bond that transcends our individual experiences, reminding us of our collective strength and resilience.