Lifestyle
What It Means to Have a True Soul Sister
In my journey through life, I’ve encountered numerous remarkable women. Some have become lifelong confidantes, while others have left a fleeting yet memorable impression—like yesterday, when I was trying on high heels. I found myself next to another woman who was also admiring the same pair in the mirror. Rather than waiting for her to move so I could catch a glimpse of my own reflection, I chose to stand beside her.
We struck up a conversation about our mutual love for heels—how they elevate our mood, elongate our legs, and add a touch of fun to our outfits. We didn’t dwell on the practical drawbacks—like the long winters in the Northeast or the discomfort they often bring. Our connection was so enjoyable that we both ended up purchasing multiple pairs.
As we parted ways, I thought to myself, “I didn’t even get her contact information.” She felt like a soul sister. The effortless energy we shared embodied the essence of a true soul sister.
A true soul sister is someone you can send candid pictures of yourself from a dressing room, accompanied by a text saying, “Check out these bras! They enhance your figure perfectly.” She won’t bat an eye if you show up at her place to binge-watch your favorite show without a bra.
She’s the one you can call to vent, knowing she’ll help you sort through your feelings because she has been there for you countless times. A true soul sister doesn’t seek constant validation; she understands that friendship doesn’t require weekly check-ins or scheduled calls.
She knows she can flood your phone with messages, confident that you’ll respond when you can. She can read your emotions just from your tone and body language, understanding when something’s bothering you.
A true soul sister has the freedom to express frustrations about her family, career, or life’s challenges, and you both know the real meaning behind her words. You create a safe space for each other, one where explanations aren’t necessary for being late or having an emotional moment.
She listens patiently, without feeling the need to offer solutions. The silence between you is comfortable; it’s an understanding that sometimes, words are unnecessary. A true soul sister senses when you’re upset and absorbs your anger, having saved each other from potential confrontations.
She knows what you need, even from a distance, and just the knowledge that she understands is often enough. She encourages you to indulge—whether it’s desserts, new outfits, or taking on new challenges—while also knowing when to urge you to take a deep breath.
When you’re with a true soul sister, the atmosphere shifts. It doesn’t matter if she’s a younger sibling, a childhood friend, or someone you met during a chance encounter at a store—what matters is the acceptance she offers.
Every woman deserves a soul sister. I am grateful for the strong women in my life; they make me better. When we’re fortunate enough to find one (or more), we learn to cherish their presence, love them genuinely, and be authentic with them. It’s essential to express how much they mean to us—sometimes through an outrageous gesture or a simple cup of coffee on a tough day, and other times by allowing them to cry without concern for the mess it may create.
A true soul sister is the best kind of therapy—especially when one remembers to bring along a bottle of wine.
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Summary:
A true soul sister embodies understanding, support, and unconditional acceptance. She is someone you can share your deepest thoughts with, someone who doesn’t require constant reassurance, and someone who encourages you to embrace life’s pleasures. Every woman deserves this bond, as it enriches our lives and promotes personal growth.