As New York State, along with many others, announces the suspension of in-person classes, a wave of emotions washes over us. How do we come to terms with this news, especially for our children? Many of us are navigating uncharted waters filled with fear, uncertainty, and disappointment. To all my fellow New Yorkers and anyone feeling adrift in this emotional storm, I want to share a few thoughts.
To the students, educators, and parents facing an unfinished academic year: I understand your struggles.
Parents, I hear your concerns — are you doing enough? Balancing work, home-schooling, and household chores can feel overwhelming. For the little ones who long to perform in their end-of-year plays, or the fifth graders missing their dance and ceremonies, my heart goes out to you. I empathize with the eighth graders who won’t get to sign yearbooks or celebrate their transitions, and the teachers who are retiring without the chance to say goodbye to their students and colleagues.
I also feel for the high school seniors who are missing out on celebrating their college acceptances, prom night, and graduation — those cherished milestones. Two decades ago, I experienced a similar heartbreak. On a fateful April evening in 2000, I was a passenger in a terrible car accident that left me a quadriplegic. At 17, I was devastated not to take my AP exams after months of preparation, nor to attend my awards ceremonies or wear my prom dress.
I often dream about those last months of high school, still yearning for the closure I never received. As a mother of three, I witness the confusion and sadness in children today. It’s essential to validate their feelings; not achieving their goals as they envisioned is disheartening. Yet, I believe in the resilience of children. They will emerge from this experience stronger and more appreciative of life’s small joys — like a simple car ride or a walk in nature.
While this situation is undeniably unfair, it is also a lesson in perseverance. Life goes on, and it could be much worse. Others are facing far greater losses, such as families dealing with the illness of loved ones.
In moments of adversity, we must rise above. Twenty years ago, I found myself thrust into adulthood, making decisions about rehabilitation when my peers were planning for college. It felt unjust, but those experiences shaped me into who I am today.
Throughout this pandemic, I’ve learned to take each day as it comes. As parents and educators, we have the opportunity to teach our children that overcoming this challenge will prepare them for whatever life throws their way.
Remember, nothing lasts forever. This is a chance for all of us to emphasize the importance of living in the present and cherishing what we have right now.
To my young friends, stay positive and resilient, even in uncertain times. Life may throw you curveballs, but you are strong enough to face them. Know that you have our unwavering support throughout your journey. If you’d like to explore more about journeying through these challenging times, check out this blog post, which offers additional insights into navigating life’s hurdles.
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In summary, while challenges may feel overwhelming, they also offer lessons in resilience and gratitude. Embrace the present and remember the love and support that surrounds you.