Dear Ms. Judgmental,
I’ve come across yet another open letter criticizing parents who let their kids use iPads in restaurants, and honestly, I’m baffled at why these letters keep popping up. Haven’t we heard this rhetoric a thousand times already? The writers never seem to offer any fresh insights but rather regurgitate the same tired arguments.
So, instead of getting into another round of the Mommy Wars, I just want to say: mind your own business and stop being such a know-it-all. Your intention may have been to educate parents, but it’s clear your real aim was to showcase your own parenting superiority while sneering at those you deem beneath you. Congratulations on your self-righteousness; you’ve earned a gold star for that.
Let’s dive into your list of reasons why parents shouldn’t let their kids enjoy some screen time during a brief meal at Chili’s.
“Your children crave your attention.”
Let’s be real: if given the choice, my kids would swap me for a tablet with unlimited data in a heartbeat. Sure, they appreciate my attention, but they also adore binge-watching shows like Minions on Netflix. I can happily cheer them on as they leap off the jungle gym for the umpteenth time, but after that, I deserve a peaceful dinner with my husband free of referee duties. And guess what? I won’t feel guilty about it.
“You’re missing out on vital bonding.”
Just because my children will likely roll their eyes at me during their teenage years doesn’t mean I should devote every waking moment of their childhood to them. Hovering over them constantly will likely lead to them being sick of me when they hit puberty. Striking a balance is crucial, and no, it doesn’t indicate a failure in parenting.
“You’re hindering their conversational skills.”
You seem to forget that the fleeting glance you get at a family enjoying their meal isn’t a full picture of their lives. I’d wager they engage with their children in meaningful conversations when not dining out. But regardless of how they choose to spend their meal times, it’s nobody’s business but their own.
“You’re setting a bad example.”
And yet, here you are, behaving like a total jerk. Telling parents that letting their kids use iPads at the table means they’re doomed to fail at parenting is downright rude. You want to talk about bad examples? How about modeling elitism and teaching kids that if they feel superior, they should publicly criticize others?
“It’s disruptive to other diners.”
Newsflash: kids can be noisy and rowdy, too. They whine, spill things, and announce bathroom needs at the top of their lungs. While you’re busy criticizing iPads, others are likely ranting about parents who dare to bring their children out in public.
Your patronizing tone when suggesting device-free dinners is infuriating, as if parents haven’t already considered that notion. If I see a family at dinner, kids glued to Paw Patrol while parents enjoy their conversation, I’m giving them a thumbs-up for seeking a moment of peace. After all, not every family can afford a babysitter, and if a tablet is the worst you can find to criticize, they’re doing a better job than most.
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Summary:
In an era where technology is prevalent, parents shouldn’t feel guilty for utilizing tools like iPads to create a peaceful dining atmosphere. Criticism from outsiders only serves to undermine the unique challenges families face. It’s essential to foster a culture of understanding rather than judgment when it comes to parenting choices.