I spotted you recently, and I felt compelled to share this — you’re doing an incredible job.
The memories of the early months of motherhood can fade into the background, especially once your little ones grow up. But seeing you brought it all rushing back.
I remembered those overwhelming hormones that can turn a simple moment into a whirlpool of emotions. The same hormones that can make you cry at a commercial for dog food or send you into a fit of laughter for no reason at all.
I recalled the sleepless nights that push you to your limits, where you might even find the rhythmic hum of your breast pump forming nonsensical phrases in your mind, like “Justin Timberlake, Justin Timberlake” — or maybe that’s just me.
I remembered the exhaustion that makes standing up feel like a monumental task and the danger of dozing off while trying to hydrate.
I thought of how personal hygiene can take a backseat when you prioritize your child’s needs over your own. Trust me, I’ve been there too, sporting the same messy bun for days. So go ahead and embrace those sweatpants, Mama; you’re doing just fine.
The bliss of a five-minute shower with water that feels like it’s straight from the fires of hell came back to me. Those fleeting moments help you reclaim a fragment of your sanity.
I recalled the despair that hits at 3 a.m., when you find yourself alone with a fussy baby, feeling like no amount of rocking or shushing will ever bring comfort to either of you.
And then, the sheer joy when that same baby finally settles into a peaceful slumber on your chest, giving you that fleeting sense of, “I can handle this.”
I remembered the nagging self-doubt that creeps in, leaving you tormented by mom guilt, questioning every decision you make and whether you’re doing right by your child.
I thought of all these things, and it reminded me to encourage you to be gentle with yourself. Motherhood is no walk in the park, especially at the beginning.
You created a whole person — a remarkable achievement! They will grow to fill your life with endless joy, even as they spill Kool-Aid on the carpet and shatter your favorite vase. While they may drive you to the brink of madness, remember, you’re on this wild journey together from now on.
I saw you, and it all came rushing back. And I want you to know — it’s all worth it. Just hang in there.
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In summary, being a new mom is a rollercoaster of emotions, sleepless nights, and moments of pure joy. Embrace the chaos, allow yourself grace, and remember you’re not alone.