I see you. I recognize the strength in you as you wear your hijab, thoughtfully organizing your days around five moments of prayer. Your life is one of tranquility, lived in accordance with your beliefs. I see you nurturing your family, striving to provide, and giving it your all.
I remember the apprehension you felt when our school reopened on September 13, 2001. Your worry about sending your child back to our community was palpable, and it took our visit to your home to reassure you that your child was safe with us, a valued member of our community.
Now, I witness you fleeing a nightmare that I can scarcely comprehend, desperately searching for safety for your children amidst the horror. You are escaping everything familiar, the only home you’ve ever known. Though the circumstances you face during your escape are dire, you know they are better than what you left behind. You are a mother like me, willing to sacrifice everything for your children’s safety.
I see you seeking refuge, fully aware of the daunting bureaucratic hurdles ahead. You know there are those who harbor fear and wish to close borders, mistakenly believing that anyone in your position could be a threat. But you are innocent, and I see that.
Do you see me? Do you notice my fair skin, the Bible resting on my table, my Western lifestyle, and my resemblance to those who have perpetuated terror and violence in the name of faith? I could easily blend in at one of their rallies, yet I stand apart. Their beliefs contradict everything I hold dear, and I actively oppose them. Do you perceive my truth?
You may come from the same regions as those who wreak havoc and chaos. You may dress similarly, and perhaps you share similar customs. But you are not them; I know that. You are fleeing from them. My heart aches for you as a fellow mother.
You are not alone. There are people, like myself, who love and support you. I see you, and I stand with you.
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In summary, I see you, a mother striving for safety and a better life for your children, and I recognize your strength and resilience in the face of adversity. You are not alone; there are those who support and stand with you.