Dear Mom,
I see you at the coffee shop, your little one perched on your hip, their cries echoing through the air. You’ve tried everything to soothe them, and yet the frustration mounts as those fiery red spots appear under their eyes. I notice your silent apologies to the surrounding patrons, even though I know you wish they could understand: this is just how your child is sometimes, without any clear explanation. You’re doing your best, even when it feels like it’s not enough. The struggle is real, and the exhaustion palpable. You’d gladly leave, but that cup of coffee is a necessity.
Fast forward a few years, and I see you again, wrestling with your toddler during car seat battles. He’s a tiny powerhouse, refusing to buckle in as you do everything to coax him—bribing him with the promise of fun or those last chocolate treats buried in your bag. Yet, he’s ensnared in his emotions, and nothing seems to break through. There you are, pushing him down into his seat, tears brimming in your eyes. I can see the same confusion and frustration reflected in your gaze: “Who is this strong-willed child? Did I do something to create this? Is this just his nature?”
Years pass, and I watch you guiding him through the door after school. His backpack thuds to the floor, followed by his body crashing down in a tempest of tears and frustration. You offer comfort, snacks, and understanding, but the storm rages on. Those familiar red marks reappear, a reminder of his intense feelings that surface in overwhelming waves. The thoughts spiral through your mind: “Shouldn’t he be past this by now? Why is he the only one struggling with these emotional meltdowns? When will this end?”
Oh, sweet mama, I understand how challenging this journey can be.
You are the mother of a spirited child—one who has always been sensitive and uniquely challenging since infancy. Your baby was the one who needed constant reassurance, the one who couldn’t be put down. As a toddler, tantrums were a norm, and traditional discipline methods felt like they fell flat. The truth is, your child experiences emotions on a level that is deeper than most, making it difficult to redirect or distract them, even now as they grow older.
But here’s the truth: the same intensity that brings challenges also brings incredible gifts. This child loves fiercely, has profound interests, and expresses creativity in ways that are authentic and inspiring. They are dedicated to their passions, and with you, they can be their true selves—their safe haven.
In the thick of it, it can be hard to see beyond the immediate emotional outbursts. Society often overlooks the value of those big feelings. But know this: many of us who are sensitive adults once caused similar distress for our parents.
So hang in there, mama. I see you, and I relate to your struggles. The child you worry will face difficulties is also the one destined to shine brightly in this world. They will transform their intensity into something remarkable. It may take time, so gather your patience and trust in the incredible person you are nurturing.
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In summary, you are raising a unique child who may be challenging now but will ultimately contribute something beautiful to the world.