As I reflect on the current state of affairs, I can’t help but feel the weight of your disappointment today. I may not have the right words just yet, but I wanted to share some thoughts before the day closes.
The part of me that has fought tirelessly for women’s rights feels like a grumpy little troll at this moment. This troll is disheartened, believing that misogyny has overshadowed all progress. It doesn’t matter that one candidate was more intelligent, qualified, or capable. Her mistakes, when compared to his, seem trivial. The other candidate’s blatant sexism, racism, and authoritarian tendencies appear irrelevant. Ultimately, the issue was her being a knowledgeable woman, and for that, she faced disdain and had to be silenced.
Sure, many might argue today that her loss encompassed more than just gender bias. Yet, I am convinced that had she been a man with the same flaws, victory would have been hers by a landslide. And that brings me back to the core reason for this bitter little troll’s unhappiness: sexism.
This is the reality for many feminists in the wake of such a disheartening outcome. We are engulfed by disappointment and fear. However, my experience as a seasoned feminist has taught me that we must push forward. There is no other choice.
When setbacks occur — and they will — it’s important to acknowledge that troll for a moment, then continue on our path.
I can’t define what this journey means for you. Perhaps it involves inspiring and educating others, or advocating for women candidates in local elections. Maybe it means participating in rallies, as I foresee many of those ahead, or engaging in meaningful causes.
In the short term, it’s about taking each step forward, not allowing hurt to hinder progress. The beginning will be tough, especially when faced with those who support divisive figures. It’s challenging to remain composed under such dire circumstances, but this will become easier with time. Your life will regain its rhythm, and that troll will gradually release its grip on your spirit.
The years ahead may not be enjoyable. I don’t have a detailed plan for navigating the challenges coming our way, but I refuse to succumb to despair, and neither should you. I remember having to stay afloat during the difficult Nixon and Reagan eras — it’s possible.
I understand how heart-wrenching those first days and weeks can be. I want you to know that brighter days are ahead. You young women are the future; there is no stopping you. Brace yourselves for this setback and remember, your time will come, and that’s what those of us from previous generations are counting on.
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In summary, the road ahead may be fraught with challenges, but resilience is key. Embrace your role as change-makers, and remember that your efforts will pave the way for future progress.