Dear Resilient Friend,
I refer to you as a warrior because that’s how I see those who navigate the challenges of chronic illness. These individuals exhibit remarkable bravery amidst the fear and unpredictability that pervades their daily lives. They maintain their empathy and the ability to seek out goodness in the world, even when faced with ignorance or isolation from others. They often wear smiles through their pain, sharing humor to lighten the mood, while internally grappling with their struggles. They experience emotions and situations that many people may only encounter a few times in their lives.
However, it’s not uncommon for warriors to feel like a burden. This sentiment can arise from a thoughtless remark from a relative or a misguided social media post, striking at the very essence of who we are. It can whisper insidiously, “You are not enough. You are different in a negative way. Your existence and contributions fall short of what your loved ones and society expect.”
During these difficult moments, it’s crucial to challenge those negative thoughts. We cannot allow the skewed perceptions of a few to settle in our minds. As author Max Lucado wisely said, “You are valuable just because you exist. Not because of what you do or what you have done, but simply because you are.” This powerful message reminds us that our worth is inherent simply because we are human, and it’s a truth we must embrace.
It’s a reality that feelings of inadequacy will arise throughout our journeys. Yet, how we respond to these feelings matters most. Society often equates productivity with value, overlooking the fact that we didn’t choose our circumstances—they were thrust upon us. Judgment is often directed at those who are not seen as “active contributors,” but what they fail to recognize is that we contribute in unique ways. Sometimes, our mere existence and authenticity can be a form of contribution.
Don’t squander your precious time feeling like a burden. If we could alter our situations, we absolutely would. Instead, let’s champion each other and demonstrate how mistaken those perceptions are. And if the term “burden” sneaks into our thoughts, let’s promptly replace it with “warrior.”
Stay strong, Fellow Warrior.
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Summary: This message is a heartfelt reminder to those with chronic illnesses that they are not burdens but warriors. It encourages them to resist negative perceptions, embrace their inherent worth, and support one another in their journeys.