I have a little secret to share: you often get an unfair reputation. It’s not that you create a complex; it’s one that’s handed to you. Even before you experience any challenges, people perceive you as “the middle child,” and that’s where your luck really shines.
Take your older brother, for instance. He’s been under a lot of pressure. We had high expectations because he was “advanced,” rolling over and walking sooner than most. We inundated him with educational toys and programs, always waiting for his next achievement. He’s the eldest, and that role comes with significant expectations.
Now, your younger brother is a different story. He gets the free pass because we’re simply exhausted. He’s been able to slip through the cracks without facing any real challenges, but eventually, he’ll face his own set of rules. Someday, he’ll have to let go of the pacifier and learn to sleep through the night. That transition is bound to be tough for him.
But you? You’ve landed in the perfect spot. I remember vividly the day your dad was juggling a bottle for the youngest while helping your brother with homework. You took that opportunity to sneak away and devour a whole stash of chocolate eggs. You hid the wrappers where no one would find them, and you enjoyed your little moment of freedom. Being the middle child has its perks, doesn’t it?
Your status as the “forgotten one” has made us more aware of your needs. The moment you show any signs of distress, we’re quick to respond. We don’t want you to feel overlooked, so we’re highly attuned to what you need—without being overbearing. Your older brother and younger sibling can attest to that.
What truly sets you apart is this: when your older brother was on the way, he was everyone’s darling. He was the first grandchild, the first grandson—everyone came to shower him with love and gifts. When your younger brother arrived, both you and your older sibling were thrilled to welcome him. You cared for him, enjoyed his first smiles, while we handled the less glamorous tasks.
But you? You were my baby, exclusively mine. While the excitement may not have been as loud for a second child, I was just as thrilled for you. I envisioned you long before you were born. I had the chance to hold you close, to shower you with affection, and to truly discover who you were. While others may admire you, you hold a special place in my heart, as you are uniquely mine.
So, there’s no need for apologies about being less photographed or feeling less special. In many ways, you’ve hit the jackpot being in the middle. It’s a wonderful place to be.
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In summary, being a middle child has its unique advantages. You have our attention, love, and a special bond that sets you apart. Embrace your role; it truly is a good place to be.