When it comes to parenting, each of us has a vision of the kind of parent we aspire to be. Some strive to adopt positive traits from their own upbringing, while others aim to break away from those patterns entirely. If you’re navigating parenting with a partner or spouse, the complexity increases as their views on effective parenting may differ from yours. While the possibilities for parenting are endless, psychologists have categorized the most prevalent methods into distinct styles known as “parenting styles.” These styles include authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, uninvolved, helicopter, free-range, attachment, and positive, among others.
If you’re uncertain about your own parenting style or suspect you might favor one over the others, take a look at this brief quiz designed to offer insight.
Before diving into the questions, here’s how it works: You’ll find a series of statements that correspond to various parenting styles. Reflect on each statement and assess its relevance to your approach. Rate each one with a “1” if you never do it, a “2” if you do it occasionally, and a “3” if it’s something you consistently practice. Once you finish, tally your scores for each section; the style with the highest score indicates your preferred or practiced parenting style.
This quiz draws inspiration from one created by the California Department of Education, but it is not an official assessment—merely a tool for self-discovery. Enjoy the process, be truthful, and prepare to learn something new about yourself.
Authoritative Parenting Style Quiz
- I value my child’s opinions and encourage open expression.
- I regularly give compliments to my child.
- I consider my child’s preferences before making requests.
- I discuss my feelings regarding my child’s good and bad behaviors.
- I motivate my child to express differing viewpoints.
- I clarify the reasons behind my expectations.
Authoritarian Parenting Style Quiz
- I use criticism to enforce better behavior in my child.
- I often remind my child of past misbehavior to deter future issues.
- I frequently highlight my sacrifices for my child.
- I tend to criticize my child openly when they don’t meet my standards.
- When asked why they must comply, I answer with “because I said so.”
- I react with anger or yelling when displeased with my child’s actions.
Permissive Parenting Style Quiz
- I tend to spoil my child.
- I often give in when my child throws a tantrum.
- I struggle with enforcing discipline.
- I overlook my child’s misbehavior.
- I allow my child to evade consequences for their actions.
- My household rules are sparse and rarely enforced.
Uninvolved Parenting Style Quiz
- I recognize I should demand more from my child but lack the motivation.
- I feel disconnected from my parenting role.
- I don’t prioritize my child’s emotional or physical needs.
- I have intentionally distanced myself emotionally from my child.
- I provide basic necessities but little else.
- Discipline and rules are not priorities for me.
Helicopter Parenting Style Quiz
- I excessively monitor my child’s activities and behavior.
- I am overly concerned with my child’s academic and extracurricular performance.
- I wouldn’t hesitate to pull strings for my child’s advantage.
- I often answer questions directed at my child.
- I am heavily involved in significant decisions affecting my child.
- I frequently complete my child’s assignments to ensure their success.
Positive Parenting Style Quiz
- I establish and uphold healthy boundaries with my child.
- My discipline approach combines firmness with kindness.
- I actively work on nurturing connections to enhance communication.
- I address misbehavior with empathy to understand my child’s perspective.
- I model respectful behavior towards my child.
- I employ positive reinforcement to encourage specific behaviors.
Free-Range Parenting Style Quiz
- I gradually grant my child more autonomy and responsibility.
- I promote imaginative play and outdoor activities while limiting screen time.
- My weekends often lack a rigid schedule; we go with the flow.
- While prioritizing safety, I encourage exploration and new experiences.
- I create opportunities for my child to enjoy childhood.
- I allow my child to face natural consequences of their actions, as long as they are safe.
Attachment Parenting Style Quiz
- I believe the first six weeks post-birth are vital for bonding through skin-to-skin contact.
- I engaged in baby-wearing to keep my child close during infancy.
- I practiced co-sleeping with my infant or toddler.
- I respond promptly to my baby’s cries, viewing them as a means of communication.
- I support breastfeeding as the optimal choice for infants.
- My discipline approach centers on positive reinforcement and gentle guidance.
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In summary, this quiz serves as a fun and insightful way to explore your parenting style, offering a glimpse into how you relate to your children. By reflecting on your responses, you can better understand your approach and make informed choices moving forward.