Throughout my day, my smartwatch discreetly vibrates at various intervals. In the brief moments it takes me to dismiss the alert, I pause to take a deep breath and remind myself of two important words: Let go of expectations.
I adopted this practice a few years back when I realized that my anxiety often stemmed not from external circumstances, but from the narrative I constructed about how things ought to unfold. My unease arose from the gap between my imagined scenarios and actual experiences.
For instance, I envision myself as a mother who exudes patience as we graciously begin our day in a peaceful home. The reality, however, is that I find myself raising my voice repeatedly to manage children who are either squabbling or playing an impromptu game of baseball in the living room. Now, we’re scrambling to leave, and I’m certain we’ve forgotten sunscreen.
8:55 a.m. Let go of expectations.
I planned to fit in a yoga session or a brisk walk before diving into my work, but one quick email to a potential client derailed my intentions. Suddenly, I’m buried in my inbox, my chance for morning exercise is gone, and back-to-back meetings fill my day. I feel frustrated with myself for neglecting my health, which only heightens my stress.
10:20 a.m. Let go of expectations.
I remembered it was time for my car’s safety inspection (thankfully, just before the deadline), and I felt accomplished dropping it off during my lunch break. That is until the mechanic informed me of a tire issue and a broken windshield wiper pump, with the replacement part not arriving until tomorrow.
1:11 p.m. Let go of expectations.
I like to think of myself as someone who checks off every item on her to-do list and sails through the day with a sense of accomplishment, never carrying tasks over to the next day. In reality, it often feels like my tasks are multiplying like Gremlins—perhaps I spilled water on my keyboard?—with new responsibilities springing up unexpectedly.
3:45 p.m. Let go of expectations.
I aspire to be a parent who provides her children with nothing but wholesome meals that they enjoy, expressing gratitude for the lovingly prepared dishes. But as you can imagine, that’s not always the outcome.
6:40 p.m. Let go of expectations.
As we transition into fall, filled with uncertainties regarding workplaces, schools, and travel, I don’t claim to have all the answers. What I do recognize is that the reality often diverges from the idealized visions we create in our minds. Releasing that narrative and accepting what is may be our best strategy for navigating challenges ahead.
Deep breath. Let go of expectations.
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In summary, adopting the mantra of “Let go of expectations” has significantly aided my anxiety management. By acknowledging the disparity between my expectations and reality, I can navigate daily challenges with a more accepting mindset.