Throughout the years, I’ve encountered some truly remarkable advice, often in the most unexpected places. While I may forget most conversations before breakfast, I find that pop songs serve as excellent life guides. Their catchy melodies and rhymes make profound messages easy to remember. Here are seven timeless lessons I’ve gleaned from the music of the ’80s and ’90s that resonate just as deeply today.
1. “Closing Time,” Semisonic
“One last call for alcohol, so finish your whiskey or beer. … You don’t have to go home, but you can’t stay here.”
As a young adult, these lyrics echoed the bittersweet moment when my favorite bar closed for the night. Now, I see them as a reminder to leave a party while it’s still enjoyable, rather than overstaying my welcome.
2. “Fight for Your Right,” Beastie Boys
Key lyric: See song title above, followed by “to paaaaaaaaarty!”
Once a rallying cry for teenagers feeling constrained by rules, this song now represents my desire for a cozy night in with my couch and Netflix.
3. “The Climb,” No Doubt
“Pulling myself up by a rope, I better my view. The only thing in sight is what I must do.”
This surprisingly insightful lyric from a beloved ska-pop band offers a simple yet profound reminder: when career anxieties arise, gaining perspective can illuminate the right path forward.
4. “Wannabe,” Spice Girls
“If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends, and you have got to give.”
This straightforward message highlights the importance of partners who are willing to integrate their lives with yours and to show generosity. Clearly, this wisdom was penned by the elusive sixth Spice Girl, Sage Spice.
5. “Everybody’s Free (to Wear Sunscreen),” Baz Luhrmann
The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proven by scientists. … Do one thing every day that scares you. … Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts.
Mary Schmich’s iconic spoken-word commencement address is filled with invaluable advice, especially regarding the necessity of sunscreen.
6. “Express Yourself,” Madonna
“You deserve the best in life, so if the time isn’t right then move on.”
A lesson I often grapple with is that many life missteps—such as unfulfilling relationships or poor career choices—are not due to malice but rather bad timing.
7. “Tubthumping,” Chumbawamba
“I get knocked down, but I get up again. You’re never gonna keep me down.”
While not all wisdom comes from lyrics, this particular line would fit perfectly on a needlepoint pillow in your badass grandma’s living room.
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In summary, these songs from the ’80s and ’90s offer timeless wisdom that can guide us through various life challenges, from relationships to personal growth. Their catchy tunes ensure that these messages remain etched in our memories, ready to inspire us whenever we need a little reminder.