It was one of those chaotic afternoons at Target. I can’t quite recall what we were shopping for, but the image of our toddler, Mia, melted into my memory. She was hanging out of the cart, her curly hair bouncing in pigtails, wearing a gray shirt emblazoned with a rainbow, a pacifier firmly in her mouth and another in her tiny hand, screaming at the top of her lungs.
My partner, Sarah, was with our older kids, Ethan and Lily, somewhere else in the store, while I wrestled with a disgruntled 2-year-old who had clearly reached her breaking point. Mia had been awake since 3 a.m., all because she wanted to watch her favorite show. Now, at 3 p.m., we were both exhausted, but let’s be real—I was managing the situation a bit better than she was. We had hoped that the car ride would soothe her enough to doze off, but it didn’t pan out that way.
This situation was a result of her restless nights. We attempted to cut out naps, but that only made things worse. Suddenly, she was waking up before dawn, entering a bizarre realm of sleeplessness that turned her into a little monster. She went from being just tired to an overtired child—a category that defies explanation.
Once a child crosses into the overtired zone, it can feel like they’re operating on a whole different level. If a well-rested child is a 0 on a scale of 0 to 10, an overtired child is definitely an 11. The only cure? Sleep. But good luck convincing them to settle down when they’re in that state.
I tried different strategies to calm Mia down. I lifted her out of the cart, and she kicked me in protest. I set her down to let her walk, only for her to collapse on the floor. I even dangled candy in front of her, but it was all in vain.
As I struggled, I noticed the disapproving stares from other shoppers. Those judgmental glances from non-parents, perfect parents, and wannabe parenting experts were all too familiar. They clearly thought I should have been able to manage my toddler’s meltdown, but they didn’t understand that staying home every time she was overtired would mean I’d never leave the house.
Trying to find solace in my thoughts, I fantasized about revenge. Sometimes, I imagine what it would be like to write “FART” on the back of my son’s first car or stage a dramatic scene in my daughter’s pantry. In that moment, I envisioned waking Mia up at 3 a.m. one day, just to see how she liked it.
Eventually, I met up with Sarah and the kids in the boys’ clothing section. She was picking out new shirts for Ethan when Mia reached for her. In an instant, Sarah scooped her up, and like a switch flipped, Mia went silent. She snuggled into Sarah’s shoulder and drifted off to sleep as if her mother was a magical elixir.
“Seriously?” I remarked, feeling a wave of frustration mixed with envy. “What just happened?”
“She just needed Mommy,” Sarah said with a shrug, and I couldn’t help but feel a bit cheated. It seems that mothers possess some sort of special power that I was unaware of.
We drove home quietly, Mia peacefully asleep in the backseat. I couldn’t shake the feeling of dread about the next day, knowing that her overtired episodes were an inevitable part of parenting—a frustrating and exhausting reality that every parent faces.
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Summary
Dealing with an overtired child can be a parent’s worst nightmare, filled with meltdowns and frustration. Navigating through these tough moments is an inevitable part of parenting. The challenge lies in finding ways to manage the chaos while understanding that sleep is the ultimate solution.