Following an unexpected snow day, I gathered my children and turned on the news. Amid the typical chaos of diaper changes and scattered snacks, a familiar image caught my eye: a baby with Down syndrome. Each time I see someone with Down syndrome, I feel a rush of anticipation, eager to learn more about their story. My partner and I eagerly scanned the internet for information, and then the announcement came.
Lucas was crowned the Gerber baby of 2018, and he has Down syndrome. This moment was monumental for the disability community. This single announcement had the power to reshape perceptions of what is considered “adorable” and opened up new possibilities for my son. In that instant, time stood still, and we were overcome with emotion at the thought of what the future might hold.
When my son, Eli, was an infant, many suggested he pursue modeling. His grandmother, especially, voiced this idea every time I shared a photo online. While I found it amusing, I also doubted whether others truly saw him as cute or if they were merely feeling pity. Deep down, I believed the world wasn’t ready for a child like him—though the reality was that I was the one who wasn’t prepared. I feared the rejection I anticipated and worried about the harshness of societal judgment.
I now recognize how mistaken I was.
To my son, Eli:
I owe you an apology. I underestimated the world’s capacity for kindness and acceptance. I often advocate for inclusion and celebrate your uniqueness on social media. Yet, when it came to you modeling, I hesitated, worrying about potential hurt. I realize now that I should have embraced your potential without fear.
I promise to do better. I vow not to shy away from opportunities because of unknown challenges. That’s not who I want to be, nor who I want you to become. The world is ready for you, full of acceptance and love.
With unwavering love,
Mom
This article was first shared on February 14, 2018.
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In summary, the announcement of Lucas as the Gerber baby represents a significant cultural shift towards acceptance and celebration of children with Down syndrome. It encourages families to embrace their children’s uniqueness and fosters hope for a kinder, more inclusive world.