Have you heard of promposals? Just recently, I learned this term, which refers to the creative and often extravagant ways students invite someone to prom. It seems like a simple ask, but it has evolved into something much more elaborate. Nowadays, merely asking someone to be your prom date isn’t enough; you need to make it a spectacle. Think grand gestures—like proposals on a Jumbo-tron, flash mobs, or even hiring a helicopter to skywrite “Prom?”
Why Has This Become a Trend?
According to Dr. Alex Martinez, a social behavior expert at West Coast University, it’s all about gaining social media attention. “The more outrageous the promposal, the more likes and comments it garners from peers online,” he explained to the Associated Press. This societal pressure pushes teens to go all out because once the question is popped, you can bet those moments will be shared across platforms like Instagram and TikTok. A simple search for #promposals reveals a treasure trove of creative ideas—from scavenger hunts to unique pizza invitations, and even romantic surprises involving jewelry.
The Cost of Extravagance
However, these extravagant gestures come with a hefty price tag. Recent research by Visa highlights that the average cost of a promposal is around $324, which represents over a third of the total average expenses for prom, estimated at $919. This total encompasses everything from attire to transportation, flowers, and photography. Nat Sillin of Visa remarked, “While prom is a fun event, spending over $300 just to ask someone is quite excessive.”
The Fallout of Rejection
This raises an important question: What happens if the intended date declines the offer?
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Conclusion
In summary, promposals have transformed from simple invitations into costly social media spectacles, raising questions about their true value and the potential fallout of rejection.