When one embarks on a medical career, they take the Hippocratic Oath, pledging to practice with integrity. Likewise, a President takes the Oath of Office before taking on their responsibilities. However, when a woman becomes a mother, there is no formal pledge, no oath to uphold. This oversight needs to be addressed.
To navigate the challenges of motherhood, we must establish a collective understanding. Thus, I present to you… The Motherhood Commitment.
I vow, to the best of my ability and discernment, to uphold this agreement:
1. Honor the Insights of Predecessors
I will honor the invaluable insights gained from those mothers who have preceded me, sharing my knowledge with those who come after—only if they seek it. If not, I will remain silent.
2. Support My Child’s Growth
For my child’s well-being, I will employ all necessary measures. Yet, when she stumbles, I will refrain from panicking. I will encourage her to get back up. I refuse to raise a child who overreacts at the slightest discomfort, causing distress to other mothers.
3. Acknowledge My Limitations
I will not hesitate to admit when I lack answers. On tough days, I will seek assistance, recognizing that I do not have to shoulder everything alone.
4. Respect Confidentiality
I will respect the confidentiality of my fellow mothers. If they choose not to share something personal, I will not pry; if they confide in me, I will safeguard their trust.
5. Combat Feelings of Inadequacy
I will strive to combat feelings of inadequacy. If I prepare an elaborate lunch of quinoa, kale, and pomegranates shaped like cartoon characters, I will not feel compelled to broadcast it on social media. And should my children actually consume that meal, I will be honest about the fact that they really had Goldfish and soda.
6. Support the Community
I will remember my responsibility to the broader community of mothers. If I notice an unsightly hair on another mother’s neck, I will bring it to her attention—and if I have tweezers handy, I’ll offer them right away.
If I adhere to this commitment, may I enjoy life and be embraced by the community, earning respect during my lifetime and fond remembrance afterward. May I always endeavor to uphold the finest traditions of motherhood.
For those interested in exploring more about becoming a mother, consider checking out our other blog post on home insemination kits here. Additionally, if you’re curious about the differences between various insemination methods, this site offers excellent insights. For further resources on infertility and pregnancy, Mount Sinai provides a wealth of information.
In summary, motherhood is a journey that deserves recognition and commitment. Establishing a mutual understanding among mothers fosters a supportive environment, enabling us to face challenges together and celebrate our shared experiences.