Growing up in a household filled with women, conversations about various topics were frequent. However, when sexual abuse occurred in our lives, committed by someone we trusted and loved, it was a subject we avoided completely. It was dismissed, hidden, and shamed as if it were a mistake that should be forgiven without any consequences for the perpetrator—who, after all, was a “respected” family member.
I was the one silenced. I grappled alone with the trauma, while the individual who harmed me received a free pass. This silence persisted because the discomfort of facing such realities was too much for those around me. My presence became a burden, and I bore the weight of consequences for an act I did not commit.
This cycle of blame often leaves the victims struggling to find their voice and navigate the aftermath of their experiences. The focus remains on the perpetrators, while those who suffer must endure the pain in silence. We’re conditioned to believe we should have acted differently—screamed, resisted, or avoided situations that put us at risk. The narrative often shifts to blame the victim for what they wore or how they behaved, ignoring the fundamental issue at hand.
In a world where respect for authority figures—be they family, educators, or employers—is ingrained from a young age, it becomes increasingly challenging to speak out. The workplace culture further complicates matters, with many feeling they must remain silent about misconduct for fear of retribution.
Men who engage in such behavior don’t suddenly change; they often grow up thinking their actions are acceptable. As a mother of two teenage sons, I am determined to educate them differently.
Statistics reveal that one-quarter of women experience sexual harassment at work, leading many to leave their jobs. It raises an important question: how many men have ever felt unsafe in their workplaces?
Raising boys means teaching them about clear boundaries and consent. It is our responsibility as parents to dispel the myths of “blurred lines.” Consent is straightforward; it involves asking if someone is interested and respecting their response. If someone appears uncomfortable, it is imperative to stop and communicate.
It’s essential to reinforce that consent can be revoked at any moment and that intoxication impairs the ability to give informed consent. No desire is worth compromising another person’s autonomy.
To have meaningful discussions with my teenage boys about these issues, I find that visual representations often resonate more than mere conversation. This is why I believe watching The Morning Show on Apple TV is particularly impactful.
The character Mitch Kessler, portrayed by a rage-inducing actor, embodies the problematic dynamics in workplaces where power is exploited. This series sheds light on the insidious culture that has been allowed to persist for far too long, demonstrating how men often manipulate women while feigning ignorance about their discomfort.
Teenage boys should witness how these women are placed in precarious situations, where their silence is often met with dismissal. The show illustrates the importance of ongoing discussions about sexual misconduct and the necessity of addressing these subjects with our children.
It’s crucial that they hear these lessons from us, rather than from potentially unreliable sources. If we don’t engage in these discussions, someone else will take the reins—and that’s a risk we shouldn’t take.
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In summary, The Morning Show serves as a poignant reminder of the realities surrounding sexual misconduct and its impact on victims. It’s crucial for parents to engage their sons in these discussions, ensuring they understand the importance of consent and respect in all interactions.