Let’s get straight to the point: I’m a big fan of oral sex. When it comes to satisfying my intimate areas, it’s my favorite avenue. However, I’ve noticed that opinions on cunnilingus vary widely among those with vaginas. Hearing comments like “it doesn’t excite me” or “I can’t reach climax that way” makes me wonder if they’ve ever tried the Kivin method.
My mission is simple: to help you reach that ultimate goal of orgasm. If you’re not going to experience pleasure while someone is focusing on your most sensitive spots, what’s the purpose? If you knew you could reach ecstasy in under ten minutes, wouldn’t you be open to giving oral a shot? I think the answer is a resounding yes.
Moreover, the person giving you oral attention is likely eager to please you. After all, no one enjoys putting in effort without seeing results. If you’re unfamiliar with the Kivin method—promising an “orgasm in three minutes” and claiming “60% of women and people with vaginas experience quicker and more intense orgasms,” as noted by Cosmo—then grab a seat and get ready for a revelation.
I’m tempted to dive right in and explore this method myself (for scientific purposes, of course), and I can confidently say it works wonders for me and my satisfied self. So, how does it work? Let’s break it down:
Understanding the Kivin Method
The Kivin method emphasizes positioning. Start by lying on your back and getting comfortable—maybe grab your favorite pillow for support. Your partner should approach from the side. While many might prefer that head-between-the-thighs position or even the 69, trust me: the side approach is where the magic happens.
Once positioned, your partner will need to access your clitoris. You’ll want to spread your legs and labia for optimal stimulation. This can be done by using a thumb and finger to gently open up. The goal here is to ensure the clitoris is front and center, ready for a delightful experience.
Next, your partner can begin by licking the clitoris from the side. According to Jenna Rodriguez, a Certified Sexual Wellness Specialist, the best angle is when their chin and nose form a 90-degree angle with your belly button. This technique stimulates the shaft of your clitoris, where most nerve endings are concentrated. Start slow, and don’t hesitate to communicate when they find your sweet spot.
As you guide them, remember that the clitoris has a unique structure, resembling a wishbone, with two hidden prongs beneath the labia minora. With the Kivin method, as your partner senses swelling around your vaginal canal, they can increase the pace of their licking. Communication is key here—let them know when it feels incredible because this can help them enhance your pleasure.
To take it up a notch, have your partner apply light pressure to the area between your vagina and anus. This creates a connection that allows them to feel your muscles contracting as you approach orgasm, which is an exhilarating sensation.
This method is particularly effective for many people with vaginas because the sideways licking enhances stimulation more rapidly than other techniques. Don’t just take my word for it—try it out for yourself. If you’re feeling bashful, share this article with your partner or leave it somewhere they’ll find it. It’s an experience you’ll both cherish.
Quick Recap
- Lie on your back and open your labia.
- Have your partner stimulate your clitoris from the side.
- As they notice swelling, they’ll know they’re on the right track; increasing speed will amplify your pleasure.
- Applying gentle pressure to the perineum or anus will help them gauge your impending orgasm, intensifying the experience.
Enjoy the ride!
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