In our household, television isn’t a significant presence, which led me to become overly confident about monitoring my family’s screen time. It wasn’t until I took a deliberate approach to track how and when we engaged with our devices that I recognized the need for better management. Here are the key indicators that prompted my realization:
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Chargers at the Dining Table
The most accessible outlet in our kitchen is right next to the dining table. Consequently, there’s always a phone or tablet plugged in during meals. The constant “dinging” and “buzzing” certainly do not foster meaningful family conversations. -
Video Calls with Grandparents
Getting the kids to sit still for a Skype call with their grandparents, who live abroad, is a challenge. We found that feeding them was an effective strategy; however, our family dinners often turned chaotic. Our conversations typically went something like this:
Us: “We can’t hear you.”
Grandparents: “What?”
Us: “Activate your microphone.”
Grandparents: “Should we call?”
Us: “You’re frozen.”
Kids: “Can we watch Frozen now?” -
Pinterest Distractions
I was thrilled my daughters were exploring fun ideas like costumes and party themes on Pinterest, but their browsing often led them astray. One moment they were admiring a mermaid costume, and the next, they were staring at an inappropriate image that left them sufficiently unsettled to turn off the iPad. -
The Cost of Piano Lessons
My kids enjoy music and YouTube; therefore, my husband and I thought it would be wise to let them watch “piano” videos to inspire their practice. However, what began as an Elton John tribute quickly devolved into a dance party, ignoring their keyboard altogether. It’s clear we need to prioritize practice before YouTube escapades. -
“Just Checking” Equals “Just Addicted”
During family car rides, I often found myself reaching for my phone to “check” on trivial matters. This habit not only distracted me from my family but also set a poor example for my children regarding screen usage. -
Cousins on Social Media
Sharing cute videos on Instagram can backfire. After showing my daughter a clip of her friend’s home run, she inadvertently stumbled upon posts featuring my 20-something cousins on a spring break adventure, which was far from appropriate viewing for her. -
Late-Night Screen Time
The hour before bedtime can be chaotic and overwhelming. My fatigue often leads me to resort to screens for a moment of peace, despite knowing it’s the worst time for device engagement. Acknowledging this need for a digital detox is crucial. -
Limited iPad Memory
There’s nothing more frustrating than preparing to watch an anticipated show only to be greeted with a “memory full” error. Discovering my child had taken countless selfies using a silly app only adds to the irritation. -
Online Art Lessons Gone Wrong
When my daughter asked how to draw a horse, I handed her my phone to look up tutorials. She was met with stunning artistic examples, only to be disappointed when her own attempt didn’t measure up. A reminder for both of us: creativity from the heart is always the best.
This year, my resolution is to direct how my family interacts with technology while strengthening our connections with one another. We’ve covered the kitchen outlet, limited Skype dinner calls, and established set times for device usage. Progress is underway, even if we’re still working on mastering that Elton John song.
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In summary, navigating the digital landscape with family requires intentionality and a commitment to fostering real-life connections.