As my son wrapped up his final semester of high school, with sports and volunteer obligations behind him, I decided it was time for him to take a crucial step before heading off to college. I looked into his eyes and said, “You need to go find a job.”
His response? A confused, “Huh?” But it was time for him to start earning some money before embarking on his college journey.
During his busy high school years, the thought of a part-time job was unrealistic. His days were filled to the brim, leaving little room for anything else. Weekends were for catching up on homework, sleep, and family time, while his summers were dedicated to volunteering. Although he viewed his volunteer work as a job, it was far from the kind of experience I believed he needed. I was hoping for him to secure a typical minimum wage position—even better if it involved some less-than-glamorous tasks.
In recent years, college admissions officers have voiced concerns about candidates lacking real job experience. While many students boast of internships at their relatives’ law firms, few can say they’ve worked in the service industry, and even fewer are willing to admit it. However, it is precisely these types of jobs that can impart vital life lessons, especially for young people from comfortable backgrounds. The insights that can be gained from working in fast food or retail are invaluable.
1. Dealing with Rudeness
The world can be unkind, and sometimes customers can be demanding. The first lesson is to learn to keep a smile on your face, even when faced with unpleasant behavior. It’s a reminder to maintain your composure in tough situations.
2. Understanding Financial Value
Once your teen starts earning a paycheck, they’ll begin to understand the true cost of things. The realization that every purchase equates to a certain number of work hours can be eye-opening.
3. Minimum Wage Realities
Many teens are surprised to discover how challenging it is to live on a minimum wage salary. Seeing co-workers struggle with multiple jobs can instill a newfound appreciation for the opportunity to attend college.
4. The Importance of Reliability
A job teaches that personal issues, like a dead phone or a headache, shouldn’t interfere with work commitments. Understanding that they are replaceable can instill a sense of responsibility.
5. Disconnection from Devices
Working an entire shift without checking a phone can be refreshing. Face-to-face interactions become more meaningful, and it’s a chance to develop communication skills.
6. Taking Work Seriously
A job is not a platform for selfies or social media bragging. It’s crucial to approach every task—no matter how menial—with pride and professionalism, whether that involves mopping floors or managing a restaurant.
7. Cultivating Gratitude
Working in diverse environments helps develop empathy. Experiencing the struggles of others can shift one’s perspective on their own challenges.
My son did secure a job in fast food before his college departure, and he continued working during his brief break between summer and fall semesters. After just a few days, he returned home exhausted but enlightened. He told me, “That place has taught me more in three days than I think you and Dad have tried to teach me over 18 years. Thanks for encouraging me to work, Mom. I finally get it.”
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In summary, encouraging teens to work part-time jobs equips them with essential life skills, such as resilience, financial awareness, and gratitude. These experiences can shape their character and prepare them for future challenges.