Congratulations! Your child has officially transitioned to wearing underwear! Say goodbye to the hassle of purchasing diapers. No more wrestling with squirming toddlers on the floor, no more messy clean-ups, and no more packing like you’re preparing for an extended vacation every time you step outside. You’ve made it through the ordeal of potty training: sticker charts, soiled underwear, bribery, and countless starts and stops. You might think you can finally close the book on that challenging chapter of parenting, but hold on—there’s more to come.
Those of us who have navigated the diaper-free waters know that potty training is just the first step. In fact, you may find yourself closely monitoring your child’s bathroom habits for quite some time. Children still have a lot to learn about using the bathroom independently and, most importantly, keeping things tidy.
Honestly, as I contemplate potty training my youngest, I find myself hesitating—not just because the process itself is daunting, but because it opens the door to a slew of new challenges. I might just prefer to keep him in diapers a bit longer (but then there’s preschool and the journey towards independence). Here’s what you really need to know:
1. Constant Bathroom Companionship
You might believe that once your child is out of diapers, they’ll naturally head to the bathroom on their own. Not quite. For years to come, they will likely need reminders and often require your company for their bathroom visits (especially when it’s time to poop).
2. Confronting Public Restrooms
If you thought changing diapers on a public changing table was tough, just wait until you see your child use a public toilet. It’s a whole new level of ewww. I’ve often considered equipping my child with rubber gloves before entering a restroom.
3. Relying on Others for Help
My kids tend to get overly comfortable with my assistance in the bathroom, which can make it awkward when it comes to caregivers or family members. It’s an intimate process, and sometimes Mama just needs a break! So please, let your grandma help you out for once.
4. Accidents at School
There’s a reason schools ask for a change of clothes to be kept on hand from preschool through kindergarten. Even older kids can have accidents, especially when they’re focused on learning rather than bathroom needs. Many simply don’t realize that waiting until they get home isn’t the best idea.
5. The ‘Potty Dance’ and Withholding Issues
Ah, the infamous potty dance. Even my third-grader still does it occasionally. The amusing part? No matter how many times I ask if they need to go, they will insist they don’t, all while doing a little jig with crossed legs.
6. Nighttime Accidents
Just because your child has mastered daytime potty training doesn’t mean nighttime is a done deal. Many kids continue to need nighttime protection for several years, and while I’ve been fortunate, I know this is a common struggle for many families.
7. Assistance with Wiping
It quickly becomes clear why a toddler needs help wiping after using the toilet. Many parents find themselves assisting with this task for several years post-potty training. An informal survey I conducted showed the average to be around five years. Fun times, right?
8. Aim Issues
Despite all efforts, my boys still manage to create little puddles on the bathroom floor. When confronted, they will adamantly deny any wrongdoing. Curious, isn’t it?
9. Hand-Washing Challenges
Kids often think washing their hands is optional, or they create a mini flood when they try. You’ll find yourself supervising hand-washing for quite some time if you want it done right.
10. Car Ride Emergencies
No matter how often you ask if they need to use the restroom before hitting the road, there will inevitably be a moment when someone desperately needs to go—often at the worst possible time, like during your baby’s nap.
On the bright side, things do improve over time. My nine-year-old rarely needs reminding to use the bathroom and has become quite adept at navigating public restrooms (though I still have to remind him to wash his hands properly). I haven’t helped him with wiping in years (let’s keep that our little secret!). My three-year-old is currently doing well with potty training, and while that could change at any moment, I anticipate tossing the last of the diapers away soon. However, I’m also aware that another round of challenges lies ahead in the coming years.
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In summary, potty training is just the beginning of a long journey filled with new challenges. While you may celebrate the end of diapers, you’ll soon find yourself navigating a myriad of new bathroom-related issues. Remember, it does get easier, even if it sometimes feels overwhelming.