On a surprisingly swift Friday evening at Costco, the pizza line moved quickly. I balanced our cheese pizza in one hand while holding onto my three-year-old’s hand with the other. I had promised both my son and daughter a fountain drink for their patience, so we just needed to fill our cups before heading home.
My daughter struggled to reach the drink dispenser, prompting me to grab her cup to fill it with her favorite lemonade. However, she was determined to do it herself. I knew she wouldn’t magically grow the extra 12 inches she needed, but the debate started. After some back and forth, I found myself awkwardly juggling the pizza while attempting to lift her up to get her drink.
At that moment, a kind stranger stepped in. She quickly offered to hold my pizza while I assisted my daughter, who insisted on filling her cup “all by myself.” The woman’s warm smile and understanding eyes conveyed that she had experienced similar challenges in her own parenting journey. I expressed my gratitude, and with her help, we managed to get through that little crisis.
Though we exchanged few words, her simple act of kindness made a significant impact on me. I suspected she had older children herself, as she looked at my young ones with a knowing smile. As I walked toward my car, I reflected on her selfless gesture, her non-judgmental attitude, and her readiness to help a fellow mom.
It’s unfortunate that women often find themselves in a cycle of judgment. We feel compelled to justify our choices regarding parenting, careers, and even fashion. Too often, we compete rather than support one another. I decided then that I wanted to be part of a different group—a group that lifts other moms up. I want to help the mother struggling with her loaded stroller, welcome the first-time mom re-entering the workforce, and be a listening ear for someone facing the daunting challenges of parenting. I aspire to be the kind of mom that woman was for me.
I realize this may seem like heavy reflection for a casual evening at Costco, but that encounter at the drink station brought a moment of clarity. Motherhood is a tough path, and we could all use a little help along the way.
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In summary, kindness among mothers can make a profound difference, and we should all strive to support one another in our parenting journeys.